Jadey Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Is that wot guys want?! Thats wot it seems like. Seems to me they want challenges. Do we all just want challenges? Cos we moop around about not having are exes (some of us, me included) Do we just want challenges and chases? And how do you become a challenge exactly?
st8toftheheart Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Originally posted by Jadey Is that wot guys want?! Thats wot it seems like. Seems to me they want challenges. Do we all just want challenges? Cos we moop around about not having are exes (some of us, me included) Do we just want challenges and chases? And how do you become a challenge exactly? What extacly are you referring to? Are you talking about sexual conquests? Relationship challanges?
queenie01 Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Jadey how long was it before your ex contacted you? I think when people break up that people want what they cant have..of course that isnt true of everyone but i think probably most! Its been 14days of NC for me and my ex and im still sad but im not giving in...he is acting like a child.
Author Jadey Posted May 20, 2005 Author Posted May 20, 2005 Thats wot i mean really..Wanting wot you cant have. Is that wot guys want? And how would that work with an ex exactly? Weve been split up 6 weeks
ErinErinErin Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Exactly what I am dealing with...the crazy ex who wants me to be there when I cut my ties with him...that's an example of the benefits of NC...
Author Jadey Posted May 20, 2005 Author Posted May 20, 2005 We were talking last ngiht by text for about 2 hours, talking about this and that. And he seems to think i have a new bf so i played alng with it I asked him if he has any giuilt wotsoever for wot he done to me and his response wos "im just weird" I asked how that has anything to do with anything and he said "im just a weird person" WTF? lol. Then in another text he said "dont worry about me im fine being totally ****ing insane it helps me do things and get through the day" Hes always saying things like this, wots that all about? (abit off topic)
queenie01 Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Yeah well my NC isnt paying off yet!! How long was it before you guys started to get a response out of them? Should I lose hope since its been 2 weeks of NC so far and we have been broken up 3 weeks???
Author Jadey Posted May 20, 2005 Author Posted May 20, 2005 Its weird cos after he dumped me i called him the night after t get some answers outta him and we carried on talking almost everyday for about a week, then we started to argue and harsh words were said and we stopped talking for about 4 weeks now were talking again (mainly just by text tho) lots of mixed signals when i actually see him at school.. So 2 weeks aint nothing..
queenie01 Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 I guess I will just go about my business and if he wants to talk to me he will get ahold of me somehow... I just think its so weird that he texted me 5 days after we broke up to say " how about i keep your stuff and we can get together in a couple weeks to talk and see how we feel" I of course agreed and now im left wondering why the hell he wanted to keep my stuff if he isnt even contacting me to get together and talk like he said. He felt it was the best approach. It certainly wasnt my idea.... Im thinking next week i will send him a text and tell him i need to arrange to get my stuff back! I guess 2 weeks isnt that long with no contact but if i see him all the time it seems like forever!! I was trying to give him space and time to think and see if he is happier....
ConfusedInOC Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Originally posted by Jadey Is that wot guys want?! Thats wot it seems like. Seems to me they want challenges. Do we all just want challenges? Cos we moop around about not having are exes (some of us, me included) Do we just want challenges and chases? And how do you become a challenge exactly? Nobody likes a pushover who lacks self confidence. Self confidence is sexy.
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