iwontsettle Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 so i have just started seeing someone have been talking for a few months and have hung out a couple times and stayed at his place one night over the weekend. we were talking outside and he said to me that three years ago when he first seen me playing netball he thought to him self i would so sleep with that girl, at the time he had a partner but they broke up at the start of the year. i just want to know from guys and girls is saying he would sleep with me a compliment or what i thought it was good for the fact he obviously finds me acttractive and likes my body but i dont know im looking at it right.. any thoughts
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 No, you're looking at it right. He liked your body and fancied doing you. When you 'stayed at his place one night' did you have sex?
BLND Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 not a good sign really. it's just physical for him. 1
Author iwontsettle Posted October 11, 2015 Author Posted October 11, 2015 no we just made out alot. the week before after we had hung out i walked home from his place as he lives really close he offered to drive me home and i said no as it really wasnt that far away and then when i got home he had sent me a msg asking if i had got home ok. so he isnt a jerk or player i just didnt know what to think about his comment.. he said before he said it that it was gonna sound bad but he meant it in the best possibly way
Lois_Griffin Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 not a good sign really. it's just physical for him. ^^^ Repeated for truth. ^^^^ I would tend to think a lot of men probably look at numerous women in the course of a day (women walking down the street, on TV, at the beach, shopping at the mall, etc. etc. etc.) and probably think the same thing about them - that they'd so sleep with these women if given the choice. It has nothing to do with 'liking' someone.
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 no we just made out alot. What does that even mean...? Seriously, I have no idea. "Making out" can be anything from kissing heavily and hand wandering, to oral sex and dry-humping... I NEVER know what the hell people mean by 'making out'. It' such a totally vague term.... the week before after we had hung out i walked home from his place as he lives really close he offered to drive me home and i said no as it really wasnt that far away and then when i got home he had sent me a msg asking if i had got home ok. so he isnt a jerk or player i just didnt know what to think about his comment.. he said before he said it that it was gonna sound bad but he meant it in the best possibly way In that case, just go with the flow but don't be too eager to go the whole way too soon.
Author iwontsettle Posted October 11, 2015 Author Posted October 11, 2015 making out to me is just kissing and grinding on each other i guess haha no oral
WaylonWoods Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 I think it shows immaturity, and suggests that he was only interested in the physical. Most good guys would admit to finding you attractive at first sight, but not that they'd decided to sleep with you before getting to know you a little. 2
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