WisconsinWonder Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 My ex dumped me a month ago. We were together for 4 intense months. I found out it was cos he got back with his ex who used topick him up and drop him ( who also gave him chlamydia when they were together). She has since dumped him again. He has contacted me numerous times since then, late night calls which I don't answer, texts seeing how I am which I give very one word answers to. he started texting me that he was dumped again by this girl, telling me of his woes. He asked if I had moved on and I said I was dating. He has text me since then and I haven't replied the last one was apologising for texting me about her. I dont know bhow I can make it clear to him tgat I do not want to hear from him. I was pretty upset when he dumped me, by text, and want nothing to do with him. I'm friends with his friends/siblings but rather not get them involved. its just hard to move on with this. I've blocked him from social media
acrosstheuniverse Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 Block his number on your phone so he can't call or text you. Most phones all you to do this, if not call your provider and ask them to do it for you.
mystikmind2005 Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 Doesn't sound like the guy is too bright? Totally failed to anticipate the BLATANTLY obvious consequences of his decisions, then expects to have a chance of getting you back, WTF?? 1
Author WisconsinWonder Posted October 11, 2015 Author Posted October 11, 2015 Is that what hes trying to do?
kendahke Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 I dont know bhow I can make it clear to him tgat I do not want to hear from him. 1. tell him to stop contacting you. 2. block him on your phone so he can't text you. 3. if your phone can't block, download the app Privacy Star--it will block calls and texts. That will make it clear as crystal. The fact that you still give him an audience, no matter how small of one you think it is, is why he's still contacting you. If you dont' want to hear from him, your actions will match what you are saying. It's obvious from where I'm sitting that he's not catching a clue--your'e going to have to be direct about this if you want him to scram.
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