something13 Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 So I went on a couple dates with this one girl. She's super nice and we always had a great time hanging out. She was definitely very interested in me before; in the beginning she would send me multiple texts, one said something like "I just really wanna see you!", or she'd text me in the morning and write "good morning handsome". Then last week, we postponed hanging out for two nights because she was super stressed and then exhausted about exams, and then I haven't heard from her since then (bout 4 days ago). I'm not trying to get all petty, but I feel like this has happened before, and it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong, even though I can't imagine what. I don't remember saying or doing anything that could've been off-putting. Was I "too available", as some put it? The other thing is that she postponed the hanging out twice, so I don't feel like I should be the one to write first a third time. I usually don't really like those kinds of texting "games" (I prefer just calling someone), but I also don't wanna overlook direct hints that she lost interest, if that's the case. Any advice? Or was that all too vaguely? 1
Ami1uwant Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 Can't say...not enough info. If dheakleyville is in college and she has homework/exams that postpone dates then that understandable. Have you guys kissed? Second?
newmoon Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 so you don't like games but then you say <<<so I don't feel like I should be the one to write first a third time.>>> you're playing games with this mindset. either contact her and show some interest or just wait b/c she's busy. it also seems like her texts are quite complimentary - are you showing her enough interest?
smackie9 Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 She wants you bad enough she will contact you.
abby2 Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 If you like her then step up and contact her instead of waiting and guessing. Ask her if she is ok.
glynnroy Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 So I went on a couple dates with this one girl. She's super nice and we always had a great time hanging out. She was definitely very interested in me before; in the beginning she would send me multiple texts, one said something like "I just really wanna see you!", or she'd text me in the morning and write "good morning handsome". Then last week, we postponed hanging out for two nights because she was super stressed and then exhausted about exams, and then I haven't heard from her since then (bout 4 days ago). I'm not trying to get all petty, but I feel like this has happened before, and it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong, even though I can't imagine what. I don't remember saying or doing anything that could've been off-putting. Was I "too available", as some put it? The other thing is that she postponed the hanging out twice, so I don't feel like I should be the one to write first a third time. I usually don't really like those kinds of texting "games" (I prefer just calling someone), but I also don't wanna overlook direct hints that she lost interest, if that's the case. Any advice? Or was that all too vaguely? Sounds like she's had a change of mind ! My advice , get on with your life , it's she's borhered she will be in touch ! It happens all the time , your not the first you won't be the last ! Plenty more fish in the sea ! Go find any other fish
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