Dating Help

[JS17]

Just keep in mind Merin, these guys are dillweeds and you'd probably never give your number to them in the first place so they're probably not dealing with women like you. I don't know why everyone is attacking you, clearly you know what you're talking about. I'm with you sista

[jgbronc]

I do agree with you all on some level that certain things happen. One, some people play games and two, if a person is attracted to you, it shouldn't matter whether its an hour or a couple of weeks before you call. The bottom line is that no one situation is going to be black and white.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by jgbronc

if a person is attracted to you, it shouldn't matter whether its an hour or a couple of weeks before you call.

right JGBRONC, that is what I was trying to get at.

[jgbronc]

So a female friend of mine told me to do this. Wait at least 3 days and if she still doesn't call, leave her a message saying that I had a really good time and was calling to invite you out for a motorcycle ride and some dinner. She said keep it light, fun and do not talk about anything that happened when we first met.

[scratch]

Originally posted by jgbronc

So a female friend of mine told me to do this. Wait at least 3 days and if she still doesn't call, leave her a message saying that I had a really good time and was calling to invite you out for a motorcycle ride and some dinner. She said keep it light, fun and do not talk about anything that happened when we first met.

 

Sure, why not? It can't really lower your chances of getting with her too much, and you may get lucky and have her agree.

 

The only harm is that you'll likely be rejected again, and feel more frustrated and stupid. So, steel yourself to that reality and charge ahead.

 

Good luck.

[jgbronc]

So Shall it Be Written, So Shall It Be Done!