heartbroken15 Posted October 9, 2015 Posted October 9, 2015 my ex girlfriend and I was together for 8 years. Our relationship was a roller coaster just like any one else's but we was on and off a lot and had frequent issues getting along. since 2015 came in it has been a lot of arguments and fights so I broke up with her and moved away. Anyway we have been broken up for about 3-4 months now. I have a few points to make that confused me about what she really wants. I'm going to do a list to show you what I mean and I would like your opinion on what you think she wants please 1. Before I moved out we was having problems and I broke up with her, she told me I could stay but I thought that was stupid. I stayed for about a week and even decided to try to work it out but she ended up not wanting to so I left. Why would she want me to stay if we wasn't together? 2. After I left I still tried to work it out and not once did she say she wanted to work it out or be with me. But she always tried to have an excuse to come around. Asking do I need help with anything or do I need anything? (I'm pregnant we planned a baby together) 3. She always tell me if I need help with anything she will be there and she even told me she can't stop thinking about me and wish things was different but again didn't say anything about working it out. 4. Within 3 weeks she ended up dating someone else and still texted me about how she was thinking about me and even tried to have sex with me when she came to visit my son. (we didn't do it) What was her purpose of that? 5. I got sick of the mixed signals and mind games so I decided to do no contact. That didn't work within a week I texted her about something unimportant to get her attention. 6. I wrote her a letter and mailed it to her house apologizing for our issues, letting her know that I accept things for how they are, and I'm willing to let it go and wish her the best. Since then I have not been contacting her but she is contacting me more for some reason. She told me she kept crying when she read the letter and tried to call me the next morning but I didn't answer. Why do you think she cried? Why did she call me? My point is that it seems like she is happy with her new girlfriend but I know she still thinks about me and if I go days without texting her she will text me and ask how I am doing. It seems like she wants my attention but maybe she doesn't want me? Maybe she do and have to much pride I don't know. Should I hope for a future between us or just let it go? Is she just playing with my head?
Stage5Clinger Posted October 9, 2015 Posted October 9, 2015 Girls will continue to be nice to you even if they want nothing to do with you. It is a way for them to feel less guilty about leaving you. You need to accept this is over today and move on.
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