Confusedbiker Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 Ok so first day of the semester I sat next to her, didn't talk to her instantly but couple classes into it she seems to always be laughing at my jokes and asking for my help, then one day as we are walking out she strikes up a conversation with me asking about my motorcycle and if I get scared and cold n dhit like that. Then next class I purposely wait until she is done with class too (had to do something for a couple minutes). And talked to her after class again and she kept smiling and was walking close to me and all, but I was too chicken to ask her out or anything and she said I'll see you Next class and I went on my merry way. HALP
Oregon_Dude Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 If you pull her pigtails during recess, you'll find out.
Author Confusedbiker Posted October 8, 2015 Author Posted October 8, 2015 If you pull her pigtails during recess, you'll find out. Umm we are both college students lol.
Rephinican Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 If you pull her pigtails during recess, you'll find out. Umm we are both college students lol. That's the point. Oregon_Dude was saying that your entire situation sounds incredibly juvenile to the point where you might as well be in elementary school. Honestly, there's really not enough to go on here one way or the other. Sometimes people are just really friendly, and sometimes girls ask for help with things because they actually need help and like the person platonically (if at all). The fact that you were specifically waiting for her after class and are obviously distraught with how things turned out (and possibly how you didn't ask her out) shows me that even if she is slightly into you you are waaaaaay more into her. And that's fine, but there's really nothing in your post that gives evidence to her liking you back in the same way. I walk close to females all the time at my school, even people I've just met. If you want to know whether or not she likes you in the same way, you're likely just going to have to bite the bullet and ask her out. The worst she can tell you is no, and it's quite possible that even if she does tell you no you can still be friends with her (if you are capable of relinquishing your feelings of romantic attachment of course). But, even if she does tell you no at least you will know for sure and there will be none of this frantically analyzing all her behavior to determine whether or not she really likes you. I'd advise you to just go for it. But, if you don't then we might as well be talking about if Tammy like-likes Johnny because I saw her walking him home from school today. And how girls have cooties. If you want an adult relationship, you're going to have to go out and pursue it. I know it's hard, but isn't certainty better than the uncertain? -Reph
Author Confusedbiker Posted October 8, 2015 Author Posted October 8, 2015 That's the point. Oregon_Dude was saying that your entire situation sounds incredibly juvenile to the point where you might as well be in elementary school. Honestly, there's really not enough to go on here one way or the other. Sometimes people are just really friendly, and sometimes girls ask for help with things because they actually need help and like the person platonically (if at all). The fact that you were specifically waiting for her after class and are obviously distraught with how things turned out (and possibly how you didn't ask her out) shows me that even if she is slightly into you you are waaaaaay more into her. And that's fine, but there's really nothing in your post that gives evidence to her liking you back in the same way. I walk close to females all the time at my school, even people I've just met. If you want to know whether or not she likes you in the same way, you're likely just going to have to bite the bullet and ask her out. The worst she can tell you is no, and it's quite possible that even if she does tell you no you can still be friends with her (if you are capable of relinquishing your feelings of romantic attachment of course). But, even if she does tell you no at least you will know for sure and there will be none of this frantically analyzing all her behavior to determine whether or not she really likes you. I'd advise you to just go for it. But, if you don't then we might as well be talking about if Tammy like-likes Johnny because I saw her walking him home from school today. And how girls have cooties. If you want an adult relationship, you're going to have to go out and pursue it. I know it's hard, but isn't certainty better than the uncertain? -Reph Ight ima stop being a lil B, and just man up in two weeks next class it's really just that I overthink everything in my life. Lol
Rephinican Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 Ight ima stop being a lil B, and just man up in two weeks next class it's really just that I overthink everything in my life. Lol Oh don't worry about it man, A lot of my friends are the same way, and I used to have the same problem. But, If I never asked out my "does she really like me" girl, I wouldn't have my wonderful girlfriend right now. Again, the worst she can say is no and that's really not that bad right? But good luck man. I'm sure you'll be fine. -Reph
Author Confusedbiker Posted October 8, 2015 Author Posted October 8, 2015 Oh don't worry about it man, A lot of my friends are the same way, and I used to have the same problem. But, If I never asked out my "does she really like me" girl, I wouldn't have my wonderful girlfriend right now. Again, the worst she can say is no and that's really not that bad right? But good luck man. I'm sure you'll be fine. -Reph Alright bro much appreciated. I'll let u guys know how it goes thing that sucks is that I have to wait two weeks until next class since there isn't class next week
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