Denzen Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 Hi everyone just hoping you can help me with a quick question. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about a week ago now. She's very social media active and when we broke up she hid her relationship status and so did I we had a conversation about it during the break up and she told me she would do that. She removed the anniversary date and hid the relationship status as I mentioned. Now only me and her can see that we are in a relationship together. It's been almost a week and the relationship status is still there. I'm wondering what this means and how I should react to it. Obviously I want her back and I feel that if I cut the relationship status it may either give her a shock or it may validate her decision to break up further. On the other hand I can leave it and then if she does break it it will be second heart break for me again. Or I can cut it myself and take some control back but like I said I'm not sure how she will feel or think about me doing this. I'm hoping to get some opinions on this maybe from girls or women as possible. I'm suffering from analysis paralysis and cannot make a decision. I feel like any decision I make I will regret. Any advice is really appreciated. If you need more details to help provide the advice please feel free to ask. Thank you very much for reading.
PegNosePete Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 Delete the relationship, defriend her, and block her. Problem solved.
clam Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 What was the reason for the breakup? We need more info.
thunder777 Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 "you broke up" this means you are not in a relationship who broke up with who? obviously she wanted to do it by the sounds whys she doing this? has a better guy come along and she wants to test it out with him secretly to see if he's better? and if not r-engage with you? if shes playing you like a puppet, got you on a leash and aint got any time for you, piss her off dont give her the privilege of having you at all and she can soon see you broke up, why are you even friends on fb, dump her immediately dont even tell her, just cut her off, and when she comes sooking back, if she does, say nah nah i dont want be treated like im boxed away put on hold in a cupboard, whilst you (she) goes out and tests other waters be the dumper asap, else youre about to get smashed hard and shes gonna say sorry ive met someone absolutely no contact remove her silently and be furious to her if she contacts you
Shock148 Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 having a relationship status on facebook up really means nothing. You are overthinking it. She will remove it once she feels like she is ready to. But that really doesn't mean she is having doubts on whether she wants to go back to you or not. In the grand scheme of things not changing your relationship status after a break up right away is meaningless.
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