Netsky4life Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 (edited) Aight: Quick scetch: been single for 2 months, got on tinder 3 weeks ago... I had the luck to get to know a few fun girls on tinder... I dated whit 2 of them so far, first chick sucked balls and i ditched here 30min in the date. The second chick is something else. I swiped here 19th of september and we had a first date 2 october. She works as a nurse in very mixed and annoying houres (1/2 weekends, nights, afternoons etc) i work during the week for now (changing jobs) from 10am-7pm. So our options are limited off seeing each other. All of the days prior to our date we texted each other daily (me initigating). The date itself went decent, not great but decent. ... She had to work the next morning waking up at 5 am and indicated she prefered to be at home between 10-11pm. Eventually she was home at 00:30. to illustrate she didnt bother having a short night for me... I didn't go for the kiss, it didnt felt right yet. I texted here 30min after the date and asked if she came home safe and asked if she was down for a second date. She replied and said yes on the 14th of october (i havent proposed anything specific yet, but she's keeping that date free). Now she told me during the date that she had a busy upcoming week (current week) whit a horrible work schedule and a date on thuesday (i aint here boy so i dont mind if she dates i do the same.. ). She's off this weekend from work but both me and here have a packed weekend so thats why we arranged thuesday. Now everything sounds fine right ... But i noticed she doesnt initiagate texts, and when i text here she waits a long time to respond.... Yesterday i hadn't texted here for 2 days to see whether she would initiagate or not, i texted: "hey! hows my favorite nurse doing? Did you had a heartattack or what?" She: Oh no, i am fine... I just have a busy week like i told you. I replied: "Alright. You got my number... I'll see if you get in touch whit me or not :p" And she didnt reply on that.... Now i know the ball is in here court offcourse... Questions i have: 1) What would you guys would have done different? 2) Whats most likely the reason of here behaviour (a text only takes 1 minute afterall),... and she confirmed the 2nd date but backs off in the meanwhile... 3) How to progress from here? sending here a follow up text next days is out of the question i threw the ball i here court, so i know it depends off here... Supposes she texts how to progress from there? 4) Suppose i dont hear from here by the 14th of october, do i text/call here then to give here details about the date or do i presume its cancelled... Ps: this isn't the only girl i am working on at the moment, even my ex wants me back but the girl i mentioned above intrigues me a lot.... Edited October 8, 2015 by Netsky4life
pinkpositive Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 Now i know the ball is in here court offcourse... Questions i have: 1) What would you guys would have done different? 2) Whats most likely the reason of here behaviour (a text only takes 1 minute afterall),... and she confirmed the 2nd date but backs off in the meanwhile... 3) How to progress from here? sending here a follow up text next days is out of the question i threw the ball i here court, so i know it depends off here... Supposes she texts how to progress from there? 4) Suppose i dont hear from here by the 14th of october, do i text/call here then to give here details about the date or do i presume its cancelled... Ps: this isn't the only girl i am working on at the moment, even my ex wants me back but the girl i mentioned above intrigues me a lot.... hehehe that's funny story lol. 1. I think she is really not in to you or not really interested to you. 2. Again, She's not interested to you hehe.. 3.If she texted you, wait for 20minutes first before you reply and dont show to her that you are interested to her. 4. Dont text her and just leave her alone. hehehe XD 5. You are intrigues because you know she's not interested to you as you do. Ps. Sorry if I sound too direct hehehe. That's my own opinion
Author Netsky4life Posted October 8, 2015 Author Posted October 8, 2015 (edited) hehehe that's funny story lol. 1. I think she is really not in to you or not really interested to you. 2. Again, She's not interested to you hehe.. 3.If she texted you, wait for 20minutes first before you reply and dont show to her that you are interested to her. 4. Dont text her and just leave her alone. hehehe XD 5. You are intrigues because you know she's not interested to you as you do. Ps. Sorry if I sound too direct hehehe. That's my own opinion Yeah i've been thinking the same, weird **** is during the date i had a feeling she was, touching, beeing clumpsy, asking questions,laughing whit silly ****. Also she agreed on a second date.. But in the meanwhile she backs off.... I aint gonne text here until she does, and guess i'll see if she texts me or not (excluding the 13th which is my bday, if she texts then i'll just answer neutrally). And if she doesn't well then its a shame but more fish in the sea . Got a new date friday whit number 3, aint sitting stil Edited October 8, 2015 by Netsky4life
glynnroy Posted October 8, 2015 Posted October 8, 2015 Aight: Quick scetch: been single for 2 months, got on tinder 3 weeks ago... I had the luck to get to know a few fun girls on tinder... I dated whit 2 of them so far, first chick sucked balls and i ditched here 30min in the date. The second chick is something else. I swiped here 19th of september and we had a first date 2 october. She works as a nurse in very mixed and annoying houres (1/2 weekends, nights, afternoons etc) i work during the week for now (changing jobs) from 10am-7pm. So our options are limited off seeing each other. All of the days prior to our date we texted each other daily (me initigating). The date itself went decent, not great but decent. ... She had to work the next morning waking up at 5 am and indicated she prefered to be at home between 10-11pm. Eventually she was home at 00:30. to illustrate she didnt bother having a short night for me... I didn't go for the kiss, it didnt felt right yet. I texted here 30min after the date and asked if she came home safe and asked if she was down for a second date. She replied and said yes on the 14th of october (i havent proposed anything specific yet, but she's keeping that date free). Now she told me during the date that she had a busy upcoming week (current week) whit a horrible work schedule and a date on thuesday (i aint here boy so i dont mind if she dates i do the same.. ). She's off this weekend from work but both me and here have a packed weekend so thats why we arranged thuesday. Now everything sounds fine right ... But i noticed she doesnt initiagate texts, and when i text here she waits a long time to respond.... Yesterday i hadn't texted here for 2 days to see whether she would initiagate or not, i texted: "hey! hows my favorite nurse doing? Did you had a heartattack or what?" She: Oh no, i am fine... I just have a busy week like i told you. I replied: "Alright. You got my number... I'll see if you get in touch whit me or not :p" And she didnt reply on that.... Now i know the ball is in here court offcourse... Questions i have: 1) What would you guys would have done different? 2) Whats most likely the reason of here behaviour (a text only takes 1 minute afterall),... and she confirmed the 2nd date but backs off in the meanwhile... 3) How to progress from here? sending here a follow up text next days is out of the question i threw the ball i here court, so i know it depends off here... Supposes she texts how to progress from there? 4) Suppose i dont hear from here by the 14th of october, do i text/call here then to give here details about the date or do i presume its cancelled... Ps: this isn't the only girl i am working on at the moment, even my ex wants me back but the girl i mentioned above intrigues me a lot.... I've said this a thousand times and I live by it No matter how busy some one is, if there into you they will make time If you were brat Pitt do you think she would wait two days ?? When a girl says she's busy it's a see ya tablet
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