audreydash Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 This may be a little long but i desperately need help and advice with a situation. jen has been my best friend since we were 8, and we're now 20. My best friend Jen dated a guy, Corey, when we were 13 for about a year and a half, it was a little highschool relationship they fought all the time, she cheated on him, etc. She moved away when we were 16, we got in a huge fight over dumb drama and didn't talk for 3 years while she was away, but she moved back a few months ago and we picked up being friends again. I hungout with corey all the time while she was gone, just as friends, we're just all in the same friend group. When she came back, her and I hungout with corey and his friend jason all the time. We went out partying and drinking all the time, and Corey and Jen ended up sleeping together drunkenly twice. Corey told me he doesn't like her at all and regrets sleeping with her because he doesnt want her to get the wrong idea, but she says she fell back in love with him and is head over heels obsessed with him. One night we all hungout, jen went home earlier and jason passed out and me and corey just stayed up all night talking, which we've done before, we just talked about life and everything and he kissed me, we ended up making out then i freaked out and felt bad. I told Jen all about it and she was livid but forgave me. Me and corey have still been talking, and i've realized i kinda like him. I've had a crush on him for a while but didn't say anything i didnt want to upset jen, but she's been really upset with me for even talking to him. But we're good friends so i don't want to just drop a friend because my other friend doesn't want me talking to him. I understand the whole friends before guys thing, but theyre both my friends. We've all had plans to go to on vacation to Mexico together, and i've been super excited because ive never been on vacation anywhere, never left the country. So me and corey have been saving up, but jen didn't at all. Jason just found out he cant get work off at all to come, and jen doesn't have the money. But me and corey still really want to go. Is it completly wrong for me to go on vacation with just me and corey? I have no idea what to do. I realllllly want to go, but don't want to lose jen as a friend, and also don't want to miss this trip though. I don't want to say no to going on an awesome trip with someone just because my friend dated them 6 years ago.. what should i do?!
xUnknown Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 Did you ask Jen if it would bother her? Do you think it would? My guess is it would because of how she reacted when you two made out.
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