xxCourt96xx Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 Hey all, I'm Court and I'm 19..I came across this forum looking for any type of reassurance and decided to post my experience here to see if people can relate. When I was a much younger kid, my dad lived next door to this single mom with 2 sons and I was absolutely infatuated with the oldest one...I used to tell my dad we were going to get married someday...well things happened and he ended up moving to another state with his bio dad for a few years. So we didn't speak until I was 17 when his mom brought us together. I got my wish because we ended up falling in love, or whatever teenagers fall into...We dated for a year and a half, and for some reason I can't seem to get past what he did to me last month...it just isn't something you do to someone that didn't do a single bad thing to you. The day after my birthday, 2 weeks after my mom broke federal laws (which will later lead to prison for up to 15 years or more) and my young siblings were put into foster care, he texted my step-sister and simply told her he felt nothing for me anymore and that he didn't love me. And that was that...he hasn't even texted me once asking if I'm okay...yesterday, his "best friend" from school that he always told me not to worry about posted a picture of her and him together because he gave her 12 stemmed roses and a dozen pieces of candy to ask her to homecoming. And now I don't know what to feel...:(:( I know I'm young and there will be more people out there...but do you think he's ever going to regret how much he hurt me someday? He was my first real relationship, I had a ring and everything...I gave him everything he ever wanted and I'm just...so frustrated. I don't know how you could cut somebody off so quickly? Will he ever feel bad for breaking me? :/ sorry it's long, just had to get it out there.
Draper Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 Okay, breaking up with some over text is low. Breaking up with some over text via their step-sister is downright disgusting. This guy is a dick and too cowardly to own up to the fact that he 'fell out of love'. You must feel awful but, please, don't blame yourself. You did everything you could, the problem is him, not you. He could cut you off so quickly because he's immature, he saw something new (his 'best friend') and he jumped on it without any regard for the past year and a half, or you. Go NC. You don't need someone who can't even face you when he crushes you in your life. You probably dodged a bullet. I know it doesn't feel like it but, trust me, you'd rather his immaturity and selfishness come out now rather than later down the line.
Author xxCourt96xx Posted October 7, 2015 Author Posted October 7, 2015 Okay, breaking up with some over text is low. Breaking up with some over text via their step-sister is downright disgusting. This guy is a dick and too cowardly to own up to the fact that he 'fell out of love'. You must feel awful but, please, don't blame yourself. You did everything you could, the problem is him, not you. He could cut you off so quickly because he's immature, he saw something new (his 'best friend') and he jumped on it without any regard for the past year and a half, or you. Go NC. You don't need someone who can't even face you when he crushes you in your life. You probably dodged a bullet. I know it doesn't feel like it but, trust me, you'd rather his immaturity and selfishness come out now rather than later down the line. I've been NC for almost a month now...I would text him asking him to please talk to me and not leave me hanging, and he never would respond. Finally my step-sister stepped in again and he told her he was just too busy focusing on school. I know it was a cop-out excuse because he couldn't face his feelings and I gave up after that. I've been doing a pretty good job of moving on, but sometimes days are just hard. I turned 19 on September 5th, he pulled his crap the 6th, and I think I texted him last on the 10th before giving up. I've been trying to keep my self-worth up...I know I didn't in a million years deserve what he did to me...and it wasn't my fault. I can live with that, nothing was wrong with me.
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