Tantrum33 Posted May 19, 2005 Posted May 19, 2005 Ok, this is my 1st serious relationship and I was involved with a girl that I love dearly. I can't get her out of my mind. But she is really confused. Were both 15. Anyway she recently said that we should take a break, which hurt but I've been trying to get her back. But it seems the more I try, the more space she wants. I don't know what to do. She just kissed her ex-bf but I'm tossing it up to cinfusion. If anyone can give me any suggestions it would be a great help....
Marshbear Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Do you enjoy wanting someone who doesn't want you? She wants you to leave her alone. I would follow that advice and find another.
ConfusedInOC Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Show her you have self pride and confidence, let her go and find someone else.
L_and_P21 Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 with as much as i would like to say move on, i will say that you are doing or have done something to this girl to make her move further away. my opinion would be to talk to her about it. ask her what you did to push her away. if she says nothing then go to her friends and ask what you did but dont try to take her back yet. just find out what you did. also just because you broke up doesnt mean that you cant be friends. say hi to her in the halls at school. talk to her about things she likes or stuff like that, dont carry on too long. just let her know that you still want her as a friend. her kissing her ex could be confusion or a rebound. but my opinion is better to have a friend than a gf. gf come and go but friends are forever. look at it like this. so things didnt work out right now but you never know what can happen in the future. but the closer you are to her, the better chance that something might happen in the future. but be her friend
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