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Firstly, she's doing you a favour with her limited & uninterested replies - You should be happy she's being honest about how she feels so it doesn't lead you on in false hope.

 

To answer your question there's 3 steps:

1. Complete 100% NC - No snapchat, no instagram, no fb stalking, no birthday messages. Nothing. If you can't bring yourself to delete her on social media, unfollow her so you don't see her stuff.

 

2. Self-love, self-love, self-love & more self-love - Treat yourself, engage in your hobbies, exercise and treat your body well, hang out with your friends, revive the things you have neglected while you were in your relationship, etc etc.

 

3. Don't live in the past - There is nothing good that comes from dwelling on what could have been if you did this or didn't do that. What's done is done, be happy for the good memories and leave the rest in the past where it belongs.

 

I guess i have to deal with it. be strict and move on. i will follow your steps and im sure i will go 100% on the N.C. contacting her will just be a waste of my time and bring pain. thank you.

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