TaraMaiden2 Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 I'm sure she will, if you appear confident, casual and as if you don't give a damn about your tourette's. Don't draw attention to it, just be yourself. My friend only ever got worse if she noticed it was getting worse.... D'you know what I mean? It was a self-defeating thing. The less you draw attention to it, the less she'll notice it.
RoseWater Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 She does indeed mind, she's telling you she can't deal with it but she's putting it more softly so it doesn't sound as harsh a rejection. She ACTED like it didn't bother her but it did. She didn't leave the date and then it suddenly hit her that it bothered her, she was just acting like it didn't while she was with you. She knew you had it before but she didn't realize how bad it was. Too bad it was worse because you were nervous you should see your doc about taking a xanax beforehand which will calm you down and hopefully decrease the symptoms to something that won't turn off a girl who would otherwise like you. Either way you need to work on why you're so nervous during dates. I go on dates and I'm excited but never nervous. What's that about? It's not hard to figure out why somebody with Tourette might feel especially nervous before a first date!
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