tilger Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 So here is my story, I met this girl through language exchange, the first meeting was only to practice languages, however, i felt a connection between us, the 2nd was more like a date and she was flirting a lot so we end up hooking up. since then she was always flirty with me and initiating contact all the time, she invited me over to her place and we were about to have sex but we couldn't because her roommate came, since then i thought if she always initiated contact and invited me she will think i will lose interest, so i started to flirt over text to show my interest. however, after a few days texting and when i said i wanted to see her she said is better to be just friends. Its so strange because she was really into me before. don't know what made her change her mind, that i started to show my intentions? any thoughts? I don't get this girl ahah I replied Okay lets be friends but i do not want to so didnt contact her since then thankss
d0nnivain Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Maybe she's embarrassed that you almost had sex. Who knows? I'd call her not text, call or talk after your class. Point blank tell her you like her & that you don't want to be just her friend. Ask her out on a nice date so she understands you are not into her simply because you almost had sex. If that doesn't work & she sticks to "just friends" leave her be.
Author tilger Posted October 5, 2015 Author Posted October 5, 2015 I dont think so because even after that event she was flirty for a few more days, she said lets just be friends because she did not have much time free for me...(wierd becuase we made many plans for the following week)... maybe showing my intentions over text made her lose her attraction towards me...... and we do not have class together, we arranged meeting to exchange languages.
coryreply Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 I think there's a good chance that she thought things were moving too fast. You almost had sex with her on a "2nd date."
Author tilger Posted October 6, 2015 Author Posted October 6, 2015 (edited) maybe she wanted something casual? because she wanted to hang out only once a week and she is going to go abroad in 6 months and showing my intentions for more pushed her way... just thinking Edited October 6, 2015 by tilger
Author tilger Posted October 6, 2015 Author Posted October 6, 2015 (edited) So here is my story, I met this girl through language exchange, the first "date" was only to practice languages, however, i felt a connection between us, the 2nd was more like a date and she was flirting a lot so we end up hooking up. since then she was always flirty with me over text and initiating contact all the time (she even made plans to go to a concert together in a month from now) then she invited me over to her place for dinner and we were maybe about to have sex (although she was telling me that it was too soon) but we couldn't because her roommate came, after that she kept texting me but then i thought if she always initiated contact and invited me she will think i dont have interest, so i started to flirt over text to show my interest. however, after a few days texting and when i said i really wanted to see her she replied is better to be just friends becuase she did not have much time and did not want to cancel our plans. Its so strange because she was really into me before. don't know what made her change her mind, that i started to show my intentions? did she wanted something casual and i did not read it? (becuase she is going abroad in 6 months) any thoughts? I don't get this girl ahah I replied Okay lets be friends that anyways did not want anything serious with someone that leaves and didnt contact her since then thankss Edited October 6, 2015 by tilger
d0nnivain Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 Posting the same Q does not get you different answers. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/551540-girls-mind
William Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 Folks, moderation merged two threads on a similar topic so there may be some duplication. I'll leave things as they are and invite members to continue the discussion here. Thanks!
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