kadmoore Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 I met this guy online about a month or so ago. We went on 3 dates so far. Each date was a week to two weeks apart. After each date he would text me the following day to say he had a nice time or to tell me to have a nice week and I would not hear from him again until he would want to see me ( 1 or 2 weeks after) Our dates went really well and I am starting to like him. He is studying in a town that is about 1.5 hours away from where I live and goes to see his parents on the weekends which is about 45-60 minutes from where I live. In about 4 months he will be in my town for a few months for an internship though. He texted me last friday to say that he would like to see me if he was able to take a break from his studies since his midterms start this week, and in the end he did not have any time. He did mention that in 2 weeks he has a week off and asked me when my midterms are. The brief conversation ended by him telling me that we will see each other soon. I understand that giving the distance, we cannot really go on more dates. But I have no idea if he is interested or not. If he can go 2 whole weeks without texting me , it does not seem like he wants anything serious. I am starting to wonder if he is just the type of guy to take things slow or if he is just unavailable and just looking to have fun. I am not sure if I should wait it out of if it is a waste of time.. ? I am sure he is seeing others because we did meet online and he is still active online and I understand that, but it does not seem like he wants anything serious. I know its only been a few dates and maybe it is too soon for me to start asking myself these questions. What do you guys think ? Any similar experiences ?
Terry8889 Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 I wouldn't keep my hopes up if I were you. Seems like your putting too much hope and thoughts into this one guy. You should meet other men and see others as well. By the sounds of it he is not serious about you. He is just testing the waters and passing some time.
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