HeBrokeMyHeart Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 So I was dating this guy for a month & everything just felt right .... Apparently not for him though as he has done the disappearing act! However I can't get him off my mind & I don't understand why! It wasn't even this hard when I split from my sort of ex that I was with for a year & a half and who I had actually been sexual with!! I know that this guy clearly isn't the right guy for me if he's gone awol & I refuse to let a guy treat me like that but I can't stop hoping he calls! Why can't I move past this? I sound like a fool! I've only know him a month & we never even had sex? Any ideas? Please help? I don't want to give this guy anymore of my time!
DirtyBerty Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 I'm afraid there's no secret switch to stop you or make you feel better. It was only a month so it in theory shouldn't take too long to get over it, but everyone is different. All I can say is what everyone else says. Try to keep busy, see friends a lot and make sure you're active and exercising. Eventually you'll feel better. You might still have random periods of sadness from time to time but it will be temporary. Learn to love yourself and be happy and single for a bit, I bet in a couple of weeks you'll feel better and the gaps between thinking about him will get longer and longer. I'm 6 weeks out of a 7 years relationship and even I felt better after the first 2 weeks (and I was very VERY low at the beginning). 1
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