MrReborn Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 I didn't use no contact as a means to get her back, but she did end up putting herself back in my orbit. I've been dating other women and moving on with my life, and I find it funny that she contacted me when it didn't even come across my mind. When she came up to talk to me, I was in shock. As for reconciliation, I might just make her an option instead of a priority since I'm dating other women at the moment. So I guess this is a somewhat testimonial that no contact works, but only if you use it to better yourself as a person and not as a way to get your ex back. That's just a bad habit to get into. 3
organizedchaos Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 I didn't use no contact as a means to get her back, but she did end up putting herself back in my orbit. I've been dating other women and moving on with my life, and I find it funny that she contacted me when it didn't even come across my mind. When she came up to talk to me, I was in shock. As for reconciliation, I might just make her an option instead of a priority since I'm dating other women at the moment. So I guess this is a somewhat testimonial that no contact works, but only if you use it to better yourself as a person and not as a way to get your ex back. That's just a bad habit to get into. How has it actually "worked" did she plainly state she wants you back? 1
Author MrReborn Posted October 6, 2015 Author Posted October 6, 2015 How has it actually "worked" did she plainly state she wants you back? Most women don't just come out and say what they want(they do but it's rare), they hint at it. They usually just ask how you're doing or randomly ask what's going on. I've had 3 women do this to me in the past that rejected me or whom I've went no contact with, and after they have done this, they accepted my dates when I asked. People tend to focus too much on getting back together when they ultimately fail. Never get back together with someone unless you truly understand the mistakes you've made in the past and have corrected them. When the dumper breaks contact, 8/10 times it's usually because she wants to see you or see where it goes. No contact is actually an attractive quality, because it shows the dumper that you're not the center of their world and that you don't need them in your life. Doing that well shows confidence.
foxy2013 Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 You've been dating other womEn and its only been 30 days of NC?? I kind of think i wont date again in a year
Simon Phoenix Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 Most women don't just come out and say what they want(they do but it's rare), they hint at it. They usually just ask how you're doing or randomly ask what's going on. I've had 3 women do this to me in the past that rejected me or whom I've went no contact with, and after they have done this, they accepted my dates when I asked. People tend to focus too much on getting back together when they ultimately fail. Never get back together with someone unless you truly understand the mistakes you've made in the past and have corrected them. When the dumper breaks contact, 8/10 times it's usually because she wants to see you or see where it goes. No contact is actually an attractive quality, because it shows the dumper that you're not the center of their world and that you don't need them in your life. Doing that well shows confidence. You're putting the cart way before the horse. 1
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