KittyKat67 Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 I have a childhood friend that I am considering cutting off. I love her so very much and she has shown me alot of love. She has done some very selfish things over the 20 years that I have looked the other way to because quite frankly the good outweighed the bad. Am I being judgemental? I don't like how she is using men for money. I don't like how she flirts with married men all the time. I don't like how she tells me I'm a hypochondriac when I have health anxiety and call her for support. I don't like how she calls me talks a mile a minute about whats going on in her life, I get about 2 min in and she has to go. I want more depth to our friendship. But I will have to say she would always be there for me and since I have no kids, she told me I"m part of her family and will be there for me in older years together. I think I"m being too judgemental. But isn't it our right to have opinions?
SpiralOut Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 You're not being judgemental. You don't like how she treats you, or how she treats other people. I don't blame you.
casey.lives Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 If you're too judgmental .. it's your life.. and there are people like you.. so .. who cares.
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