ukitake Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 So long story short, i've confessed to tjis girl once and got rejected. But i feel both of us handled in a mature way and yea we are still good friends. So recently, we went out tgt as a clique and then we started texting each other individually agn.(I didnt text her much after my rejection) Then the texting game was strong and we have texted each other quite consistantly for maybe a month now? Whenever i asked her out, she would also reject me but the reasons are quite legit as shes real busy. Seeing these, i gave her some cold replies but shes still quite consistant with texting. I really not sure what to do, cant test the water by asking her out to see if shes really interested and dont really know whats shes thinking. Shld i just give cold replies and give up on her or shld i jus do it slow and steady to win her heart? I was classmates with her for years but didnt get close until last year project and started going out only perhaps like starting of this year? So im pretty conservative abt making moves because we do have a clique and making any wrong or fierce moves might make things awkward if we next time meet as a clique. And looking at things now we are like good friends, not even best friends so i can always take a step back if i wanted to. So i really need to see if shes interested before i jump into anything
mystikmind2005 Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 While it may be true she was busy.... the thing is.... the universal truth of it is.... when someone is really into you, it is quite miraculous how all the 'busy' suddenly disappears! 1
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 You can't be friends with someone if you hold a flame for them. You're yearning for something she is plainly telling you is off the cards. She's happy to be your friend. You? You have an agenda. She's really not interested or, as already stated, she would definitely be making the time in her 'busy schedule' to see you.... You think people already in relationships don't get busy? Yet they still make time for one another. Are you getting it yet...? 1
thefooloftheyear Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 What she^^^^^ said.... Quit torturing yourself and move on with your life...Dont need to be mean or send her some sappy letter or text... Just extricate yourself from her... TFY
Trane Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 What she^^^^^ said.... Quit torturing yourself and move on with your life...Dont need to be mean or send her some sappy letter or text... Just extricate yourself from her... TFY This. No need to exhaust yourself. If she engages you that's great. If not, hit the road jack.
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