Mrlonelyone Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 A ex has been checking me out on FB lately. I know because of signs that I was blocked, unblocked, then they either deleted/disabled their account or reblocked. i.e. I can see their name and things tagged but not their page. I noticed because I could see the old conversation in my chat changed. I did not message her. But still. I don't think their are any strong romantic possibilities.* I have done so much work trying to get to where I can let someone else in enough to date them and really be fair and give them a chance to make me feel the way she did. But somehow knowing she's been peeping outdoes them all. I have even tried listing out in writing all the things that got on my nerves about her and I still can feel this way. What's wrong with me? *Stranger things have happened.
mystikmind2005 Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 when my ex moved out i closed my facebook account so there would not be any cyber drama. Then after a while and i am sure i won't be tempted to look at her page, i reopened my account and made sure i did not add any people connected with her, problem solved. If you need to, you can always misspell your name when you open your new account.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted October 7, 2015 Author Posted October 7, 2015 That'll be hard. We still share deep real life connections. Heck, her family members knew some of mine years ago and worked in the same field. Now so do we. I'd have to completely withdraw from cyberspace and cede that to her.
mystikmind2005 Posted October 9, 2015 Posted October 9, 2015 That'll be hard. We still share deep real life connections. Heck, her family members knew some of mine years ago and worked in the same field. Now so do we. I'd have to completely withdraw from cyberspace and cede that to her. Yes, that is what you need to do, but only for a while. You have to do it to give yourself a chance to take back your 'power'. You will know when you get your power back, because that is when you feel confident crossing paths within her sphere of influence and it won't significantly disrupt your emotions. And the final sign of truly regaining your power completely would be your ability to actually consider being friends with her!
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