Ace799 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Here is my story. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/550833-feeling-broken As you can tell by the recent post it looks like its fully over but still can't not hope that she might come back, if she really loves me and cares for me then could she and I also feel we're made for each other and are each others "one"? Any advice would be appreciated.
Shock148 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Here is my story. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/550833-feeling-broken As you can tell by the recent post it looks like its fully over but still can't not hope that she might come back, if she really loves me and cares for me then could she and I also feel we're made for each other and are each others "one"? Any advice would be appreciated. Read your post. The only thing you can do is get professional help for your anger and SLOWLY show her that you have changed. You can't just say "see im getting help lets be together" or "it's been a week and im doing better see?" No. It might take a looong time of you consistently showing her that you are a different person before she entertains the idea of getting back together with you. The only thing you can do now is work on yourself and change. Once you have fully changed you have a chance, but as of right now don't expect to be with her again anytime soon. Also, don't plead or beg anymore for her to be with you. When she is ready, invite her out to drink coffee and just talk. Don't talk about the relationship or the possibility of getting back together because that will just make things go sour. Just focus on how she is doing and what is going on in her life and keep it friendly.
d0nnivain Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Both of your lives are at a cross roads. You are starting university. A whole new world is opening up for both of you. Most relationships don't survive that transition. Yours didn't.
EO422 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Don't think about if she will come back. No one knows for sure. Move on and grow yourself. If you come back together great. If not then you are on your way to find someone better
Oregon_Dude Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Quick, harsh answer: no. She will not come back. One you really swallow that, and decide to move on, life becomes easier.
Author Ace799 Posted October 5, 2015 Author Posted October 5, 2015 Thanks for all the advice. Really has opened my eyes through this tough day
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