Jesse101 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 I am constantly met with a situation with a girl and somehow when it seems like it could be something good, it blows up right in my face. Even when I didn't do anything. I see all of these guy getting girls and all they want is sex and stupid ****. I don't do anything bad ( drink, smoke, bully people Ect.) all I want is a relationship. but someone the Lord has forbidden it. All this has led to staying up till 3:30 A.M. thinking on what I did wrong. I am hoping there is something better out there for me because of all the hurt but I just don't see it. P.S thanks for reading this. hopefully someone can give some advice on how to deal with it, it eats me up. I would also like to tell my most recent story to anyone who wants to see what I mean.
PaperCrane Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Those guys make their wishes known up front and so do you. Either through body language or word choice. It is easier to just have a short relationship whose focus is on fun and sex. These girls know this and know that leaving won't be a big deal. Your focus is on the end game and to many many people that is very scary. It sounds like you're younger and honestly, that is the truth of it until the 30's. Focus on having fun, if the girl sees she wants more with you she'll be overt about it. You have to let relationships happen naturally.
Ace799 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 I kind of know the feeling but my situation is coming out of a long term relationship (recently made a post about it as well). Would like to hear your story as well.
Author Jesse101 Posted October 6, 2015 Author Posted October 6, 2015 I kind of know the feeling but my situation is coming out of a long term relationship (recently made a post about it as well). Would like to hear your story as well. Alright, grab some popcorn. So I recently got a new job, a friend worked there and told me that on the first day a girl thought that I was cute and asked to train me the next day for the position. He told me all of this that night and I didn't really think anything of it because I tried not to get my hopes up in the first place. so the next day I met her, she was really nice, we talked about small stuff like our schools and sports we play. Id say it went well. the next day was sort of the same. I didn't really try to have a conversation with her to see if she would engage the conversations and she did mostly, they weren't long but we had a few words. shed make comments about guys asking how many squats she did before bed when I was in her area where I could hear her. She told how people would say she needed a boyfriend and stuff like that. About a week later I got up the courage to text her. I didn't get her number from her because I forgot and it was killing me to talk to her. so I got it from a friend. this is how the text went, "hey its Jesse from work, I meant to get your number but I forgot, I got it from *myfriend* if that's okay. don't mean to sound creepy or anything". about 4 minutes later she replied "No your good ahah". then I replied with "Okay, Whats up". then I got no reply. I feel so stupid. I don't get why she would not reply... like at all. anyway thanks for listening.
mystikmind2005 Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 Welcome to reality my friend I think the universe is like an ant bully.... i am sure it is hell bent on arranging whatever circumstance is necessary to prevent me getting proper sex... i can just imagine some invisible force with one hand over its mouth sniggering away and pointing at me with the other hand "hehehehe" yea yea ok funny ha ha ha Frankly i am tired of it, i have been looking on the internet at those Japanese silicone love dolls, i am thinking that is the way to go.
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