JasmineJones Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 agree or disagree? What was your very first kiss with your SO like? The science of kissing - CNN.com The first time the guy I'm dating kissed me was the most amazing feeling ever. I literally felt weak at the knees.
carhill Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 IME, it certainly can indicate perception of one's attraction. I haven't seen any definitive relevance to a relationship's or marriage's health, as a future predictor. However, in the case where the relationship did turn out to be healthy, I found kissing became more erotic over time, with increasing 'get to know' and intimacy. Perhaps that's peculiar to my psychology, IDK. A lot of people put stock in your litmus test so it must have enough general traction. 1
kendahke Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 agree or disagree? What was your very first kiss with your SO like? The science of kissing - CNN.com The first time the guy I'm dating kissed me was the most amazing feeling ever. I literally felt weak at the knees. No. How they esteem me is the litmus test. A scoundrel can be a good kisser. 2
RecentChange Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 I would say for me kissing is a good indicator of sexual compatibility but not an indicator regarding a long standing relationship. I can still remember one particular guy who was an amazing kisser - we were pretty good together in bed - not the greatest when it came to actually having a relationship. And sexual compatibility is important in relationships to me, but its just part of the picture. I can say I never pursued anything with a bad kisser / not compatible sexually. 2
MissBee Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 No. How they esteem me is the litmus test. A scoundrel can be a good kisser. Being a good kisser is not an ultimate litmus test. If I don't like kissing you we will never be together but being a good kisser does not a good relationship make. You can have good kissing and even sex with people who are not good relationship material so I wouldn't get the two things confused. I've experienced sexual chemistry with several people who didn't turn out to be worth much in terms of a relationship. 1
xxoo Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 I believe in the chemistry of attraction, for the purpose of creating healthy offspring. My H and I have mad chemistry, and it hasn't gone away in the 25 years we've been kissing. His scent and kiss is intoxicating to me. Sure, that doesn't mean we would get along. But we do get along, coincidentally. And that kiss.....ummm I've kissed a few frogs. Only one ever came close to that sort of effect on me. 1
lchf Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 The first kiss between my gf and I sucked lol. We were both nervous as **** and both trying too hard. I thought she was a really bad kisser at that point, and she did with me XD but the second one was amazing and we've never had a problem since
craw Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 It gives me an assessment if the guy has a skills in bed or not. If he doesn't know how to kiss. I don't continue further.
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