fred123 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Iv been on two dates with a girl. First one last weekend for a quick drink at a bar. I was flirty. I held her hand for a bit (30 seconds if that). She paid attention to me. I dropped her home. We continues to text the whole week and i called her a few times and we spoke on the phone in the evenings. I did try ask her out to do stuff during the week but she had loads of excuses from washing her hair to being tired or that she would let me know as she had plans with her friends. yesterday i messaged her in the morning cos we had kind of plans to see a film and she said she would let me know as she might be seeing her friend. well her friend cancelled and she texted me that she doesnt want to watch a film but we can go for a milkshake. So i picked her up and we went for a milkshake. there was no physical contact and it was hard to try hold her hand. I wanted to kiss her but i dont think she likes me. She seemed cold and when i dropped her home she didnt even hug me she just left ( the first time we hugged and i kissed her on the cheek). She hardly gets to third dates so theres no point me asking her out for a third date cos if other guys couldnt get there i def aint. She texted me this morning but i think she is being fri3ndly and polite. What shall i do? Im not good with reading women. But i think she doesnt like me.
d0nnivain Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Although the hair washing excuse is lame at best, she did go on the 2nd date with you. She also messaged you afterwards. I think you read the situation perfect when you restrained yourself from going for the kiss after the milkshake. There is no harm in asking for the 3rd.
python23 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 You're acting far too needy, you're acting like a girl. Stop texting and ringing her, live your life and do other things. Already you're dedicating most of your evenings talking to this girl, this indicates that you have nothing else going on in your life. Back off for a few days and see if she notices. I'm guessing she will. When she reaches out arrange a date at night. Don't arrange anything in the day. You don't want to be her friend. If she agrees to a date say great! I'm looking forward to it, il see you then. Or something along those lines. Also, never be a 2nd option if she says she will let you know, simply say how about we rearrange when both of us have a free night to do something. It looks like you're waiting around for her. It doesn't look good bro. Be a man see your friends. Make her wonder about you. That's the ultimate rule. 3
glynnroy Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 Iv been on two dates with a girl. First one last weekend for a quick drink at a bar. I was flirty. I held her hand for a bit (30 seconds if that). She paid attention to me. I dropped her home. We continues to text the whole week and i called her a few times and we spoke on the phone in the evenings. I did try ask her out to do stuff during the week but she had loads of excuses from washing her hair to being tired or that she would let me know as she had plans with her friends. yesterday i messaged her in the morning cos we had kind of plans to see a film and she said she would let me know as she might be seeing her friend. well her friend cancelled and she texted me that she doesnt want to watch a film but we can go for a milkshake. So i picked her up and we went for a milkshake. there was no physical contact and it was hard to try hold her hand. I wanted to kiss her but i dont think she likes me. She seemed cold and when i dropped her home she didnt even hug me she just left ( the first time we hugged and i kissed her on the cheek). She hardly gets to third dates so theres no point me asking her out for a third date cos if other guys couldnt get there i def aint. She texted me this morning but i think she is being fri3ndly and polite. What shall i do? Im not good with reading women. But i think she doesnt like me. It looks to me she's put you in the friend section ! Never make some one a priority when you are just a option ! Alarm bells would have been ringing with all the excuses ! Sounds like this is a non starter. Go forth and seek out women who are interested in dating
d0nnivain Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 Why does she text me everday? Because she is open to the 3rd date. Ask her.
Buddhist Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 yesterday i messaged her in the morning cos we had kind of plans to see a film and she said she would let me know as she might be seeing her friend. well her friend cancelled and she texted me that she doesnt want to watch a film but we can go for a milkshake. What shall i do? Im not good with reading women. But i think she doesnt like me. I think she's a waste of your time to be honest. How rude of her to spell out that she's seeing her friends and then deign to spend time with you but oh, I don't want to do what you want. You can take me here instead. I wouldn't have replied much less taken her out for a milkshake. Find someone decent.
joseb Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 Did she seriously say she was washing her hair? Gotta be a wind up....
SSJROMANCE Posted October 7, 2015 Posted October 7, 2015 Any woman who wasn't 100% into me I didn't bother. I'm not one to chase a woman because if you have to try like hell to get a woman to like you that woman is a good candidate to cheat on you and most likely will never be in love with you in the first place. So find a woman who can't keep her hands off of you and dump this chick ASAP.
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