courtneykay Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 So, something random happened to me today. I was on Facebook and it recommended that I add my ex bf. We broke up years ago, he was a drug addict and emotionally abusive. Since then I have moved onto an amazing man who I am in love with and has taught me what it's like to be in a loving relationship. So why did I all of a sudden feel anger when I saw his page? Of course I clicked it and found he's dating someone. I guess I always expected him to be single because he's such a mean person but things do change. Now I just feel the urge to add or message him out of spite and show off my life to him. I realize this is pathetic and something a middle school girl would do, so obviously I won't. I just don't know why I'm suddenly feeling so angry and like I have to prove something to him. Maybe because I never received closure and I haven't thought about him in so long that all of these pent up emotions are coming out suddenly?
EO422 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Just let it go. Stop looking into it. Do not look into. Do not post and ask questions about it. LEAVE IT BE. Click that little "x" on reccomendations so it makes his profile go away. Never speak of it again. Let it blow into the wind, and enjoy this man you have now. If you leave this man for that guy, it will only end in misery. He won't want you, then this man you have now won't want you either.
Author courtneykay Posted October 5, 2015 Author Posted October 5, 2015 Just let it go. Stop looking into it. Do not look into. Do not post and ask questions about it. LEAVE IT BE. Click that little "x" on reccomendations so it makes his profile go away. Never speak of it again. Let it blow into the wind, and enjoy this man you have now. If you leave this man for that guy, it will only end in misery. He won't want you, then this man you have now won't want you either. Believe me I would NEVER pursue him or leave my boyfriend for him. I'm just confused why I'm suddenly feeling all prideful and the need to prove myself to him, after all this time. But you're right, I'm just gonna leave it be and forget it ever happened.
stillafool Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 It's because you are not over him yet. Who would recommend you add an ex to your FB? Why did you do that? Now delete, block and move on with your life. He is entitled to be happy too. Do not try to get revenge on his happiness. He hasn't messed with you so don't mess with him.
Author courtneykay Posted October 5, 2015 Author Posted October 5, 2015 It's because you are not over him yet. Who would recommend you add an ex to your FB? Why did you do that? Now delete, block and move on with your life. He is entitled to be happy too. Do not try to get revenge on his happiness. He hasn't messed with you so don't mess with him. Eh Facebook just generates people for you to add. I didn't do anything about it. Never added or messaged him. It was just weird to see this pop up in my life after years of no contact. It's obviously a new Facebook because I blocked him on everything a long time ago.
Shock148 Posted October 5, 2015 Posted October 5, 2015 Human nature to hate someone who treated you like trash and now that you are happy you want to rub it in his face to show how a real man treats his woman and how you in turn treat him back, something you COULD have had with him had he not been such an ahole. However, it is not a good idea to "show off" or contact him. If anything he might just say good for you, I have the exact same thing and I am in love and happy, so what? Then how will you feel? Will you still feel good about not really showing off because it got negated with him showing off? If anything he will just look at you as someone who still wants him (even though you dont) since you went out of your way to contact him and tell him about your great life. He wouldn't care about you or your life anyway and probably just laugh at you or something. What's the point?
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