whitewhale Posted May 19, 2005 Posted May 19, 2005 I saw him. wasn't intended. he was sitting with friends on a bench, I passed by, pretending not to see him. he might have seen me and then pretend not too, also. don't know. I was sure I was quite much over, now I can;t stop crying will stop writing now, the screen is too blurred
ReluctantRomeo Posted May 19, 2005 Posted May 19, 2005 I'm so sorry, whitewhale. This is natural. I had something similar with Juliet - saw her unexpectedly and was surprised by my emotional reaction. I stabilised again after a couple of days though. And in a bizarre kind of way, it helped me get a little more closure.
greenhorn Posted May 19, 2005 Posted May 19, 2005 Cheer up whitewhale, it happens. There is nothing wrong in this sudden burst of emotion but with passage of time you will learn to contorl them. Try not to see your ex , I know anyone would have reacted the same way so the best way is to someway avoid seeing them. You had your tears coming while seeing him and there are some ppl whose tears do some even while hearing the name of their ex or seeing the name some where. Just distract your mind and after some time you will be ok. Romeo is pretty much on point regarding this.
Caidy Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 I know it hurts - Write some poetry, go exercise, spend lots of time with your friends, get a hobby... Just do anything to keep yourself busy until the pain dissipates. And it will - tomorrow will feel better then today- next week will seem better then this one, and in 6 months that gut wrenching pain will be a twinge.
Jadey Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 Aww hun! Im so sorry. I know how hard it is, i have to see my ex everyday for now. Its so painful is unbelievable, but still soemtimes i have to put on a happy face for the world I hope you feel better soon. Youll be in my thoughts Lotsa luv Jade
katiebour Posted May 21, 2005 Posted May 21, 2005 I know how that feels- it's hard to see them, getting on with their lives. Poetry helps- I wrote this after a foolish visit to my ex's website. I cried for you today Your picture, so familiar and painful My pain, submerged I pulled it out Like a rusty nail out of an old board Rubbed it like a scar half-forgotten Felt the grief rise anew, the loss Forgotten but not gone. I thought I had stopped loving you. I was wrong. (2005)
Author whitewhale Posted May 21, 2005 Author Posted May 21, 2005 I am already better. I cried then and couldn't quite stop so I called a friend and she made me get up and get out. And drink some hot chocolate and see sth in the movies. So I went. And... grhh met him again! This time it was easier... I already know I need to do everything that DOES NOT remind me of him. I'm afraid it means stopping to writing here about him too. I'll come here from now on to browse and advice and comfort as best I can. I have to absolutely get him out of my mind and make place for some better and healthier things and relationships. Love is an addiction. That's why I have to stop feeding it. I don't want any more tears over HIM thank you. smiling again at all of you out there. YOU ARE ALL WONDERGIRLS AND WONDERBOYS!
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