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Why do I predominantly attract men on the rebound?


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Do men look for anything in particular when rebounding? Im trying to understand what it is about me that attracts these men.

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How are you meeting these men?? From Aaron? Online?

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Some people don't believe in staying single long, and I can't say I blame them.

 

It's easy to ask someone how long ago was your last relationship/breakup, and then avoid them if it's not been long enough for you.

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How are you meeting these men?? From Aaron? Online?

 

The same way you meet anyone. Through friends, through work, random chatting up at a social gathering somewhere. There's many ways.

 

Some people don't believe in staying single long, and I can't say I blame them.

 

What is there to 'believe'? Relationship status isn't a belief. And why don't you blame them? Personally I think it's a problem if someone cannot stay single longer than a few months.

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I go through the same, it's no you that attracts them, it's them desperate to find someone to alleviate their emotional pain so they hit at anything single and attractive.

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What is there to 'believe'? Relationship status isn't a belief. And why don't you blame them? Personally I think it's a problem if someone cannot stay single longer than a few months.

 

What I mean is, they don't believe it's a problem. I know plenty of people who have never been single since their teens but have had more than one relationship. Not everyone is compatible or stays together but when they find someone who "fits" they stick with them.

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What I mean is, they don't believe it's a problem. I know plenty of people who have never been single since their teens but have had more than one relationship. Not everyone is compatible or stays together but when they find someone who "fits" they stick with them.

 

^^This OP.

 

You have a way of falling for men who need to be in a relationship. There are some men and women who need the validation of being in a relationship to feel normal. So they'll get into a "serious" relationship with the first warm and willing body. They don't need to feel a special spark or anything of the sort. They just always need to have someone or the other.

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