Author Guyouthere Posted October 4, 2015 Author Posted October 4, 2015 Yes, but there's a wide chasm between not putting up with a woman's bad behavior and threatening to lock them in a cage. Like everyone has been saying, you can't MAKE someone respect you. Act in a respectable fashion, and likeminded people will respect you. Aw comon,,, seriously… lol I had you all going for a ride if you REALLY thought I would lock a woman in a cage. lol Well, maybe role play in the bedroom. hehehe Seriously though, no, never do that to a woman.
joseb Posted October 4, 2015 Posted October 4, 2015 I was only agreeing to the fact that some women won't see the good guy in front of them but rather get caught up on the ones that treated them poorly. I'm not into locking women into cages or anything of the sort. That's pretty crazy and I'm quite sure he's probably trolling you guys to get a reaction. However, I don't think anyone is above being corrected if they are out of line...even me. Everyone has their quirks but if someone can't hold a conversation about an issue without hanging up, yelling, and cursing then it's not just a compatibility issue, it's a personal issue. In my case you're forgetting the signs of a narcissist. They start off very sweet and want to make you the center of their world (or so you think). Then when they suddenly change their attitude, it's like where the hell did you come from?! I have not idea who you are! Then they begin to harp on every little thing as if it is a problem, but if you call them out on the attitude it's like starting WW3. And in response to the interest in narcissist comment, I've never seen anyone ever come out and say "Hey, I'm a narcissist...date me at your own risk". Something like that takes time to discover because no one is going to show that at the beginning of a relationship. If people actually wore shirts that said I'm a normal, well-adjusted individual (and it was true), I'd probably be married already. I'm a person that isn't into games or drama. Just want to have someone to share life with, travel, be supportive of each other's goals, and later on have a family...no cages lol (not even for the dogs). **And I appreciate your kind words Katiegrl I think people who have never dated a narcicist or other cluster b personality have no idea what its like. As you said, they dont come out and advertise the fact. In fact, they, especially high functioning bpders, can disguise it well for months, even years. Yes, the OPs "jokes" about cages etc are not in order, but all those people replying with comnents like "date normal women, dont be a pussy" are speaking from ignorance. 1
autumnnight Posted October 4, 2015 Posted October 4, 2015 I think people who have never dated a narcicist or other cluster b personality have no idea what its like. As you said, they dont come out and advertise the fact. In fact, they, especially high functioning bpders, can disguise it well for months, even years. Yes, the OPs "jokes" about cages etc are not in order, but all those people replying with comnents like "date normal women, dont be a pussy" are speaking from ignorance.[/quote ] Yes, by all means, the rational response to a bad dating experience is to treat all women like crap:rolleyes:
Els Posted October 4, 2015 Posted October 4, 2015 So you figure you have a bad relationship past because you were too NICE?! The most important trick to 'making a woman respect you' is to not try to 'make' anyone do anything at all, but rather to pick a woman who is naturally a considerate and respectful person. Part of the trick to finding and attracting such a woman is being such a person yourself. The other part of the trick is having a decent people-picker which isn't excessively blinded by superficialities). And of course you should have boundaries. Anyone, regardless of gender, who lets people walk all over them is going to get the short stick on life. I am not an advocate of hacking, but if I could figure out how to shut down Reddit, 4chan, and a couple of other website, I would lol. They are giving men horrible, testosterone with a side of jaded, advice. This is a very narrow view of reddit - it's used for a whole lot of other stuff besides just relationship-talk. Some of the most prominent members of the community are (or used to be) women, too.
guest569 Posted October 4, 2015 Posted October 4, 2015 If I get a hint of controlling ness i vanish pretty quickly. Respect is earned 1
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