Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Women don’t respect, don’t desire, and certainly don’t tingle for excessively agreeable men. We know this from cold hard experience, and we know this from scientific inquiry. What a woman wants is a man who will put her in her place when she’s wrong or being silly. To stand up for himself. To call her out on her bull****, aka **** tests. Oh sure, she’ll make a show and bitch and moan at first… but then watch her face vulvaically glow with desirous urgency as the life-giving waters of his insistent masculinity pour into her thirsty feminine soul. Yeah, just like that. The Chateau covered this ground before, referencing a similar study. “Yes, dear” men get nothing but headaches, both their own and their wives’. “No, dear” men get enduring love, bordering on worship, from their grateful wives.
mrldii Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 ~In my best Dr. Phil voice~ How's that workin' for ya? 10
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 ~In my best Dr. Phil voice~ How's that workin' for ya? Well I dunno yet, as I am not out in the dating scene. I do agree with it. After all, nice guys don't get women. Women don't want that.
mrldii Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Colleges and universities are full up of [paid] experts who have great theories on how things should work that get blown all-to-hell when the people (who continue making payments for decades) try to apply those theories in the real-world too. 3
smackie9 Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Ummmm wrong and wrong again. A woman accepts a man who is confident in himself that he doesn't have to go around trying to please people in order to be accepted or liked. There is a different in being a gentleman and a doormat. But this goes for women too. If you let people control you or push you around you set yourself up to being abused. If you have to call out a woman on her BS, you are dating an immature person. Don't generalize woman as being drama queens that play head games that need to be put in their place. 8
Redhead14 Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 "Yes, Dear men" are usually men who subscribe to the adage "Happy, wife, happy, life". They are men who have simply taken a back seat in a relationship because he's in a relationship with a controlling, petulent woman who negates his contributions and opinions in the relationship on a regular basis and he's just tired but can't or won't leave her because "it's cheaper to keep her" . 3
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 So what is the balance with some women??? Coz as you know,,,, my last one,,,,, I "gave" her freedom, and yet didn't do it in a controlling manner. I have come to the conclusion that some aren't capable of anything regarding a relationship. I will put a woman in her place when she needs it. Sometimes a woman needs to be put in her place. Thats what I did with this last one…. Guy on the side,,,, no f-n way. That is good enough reason for me to "yell" at her as I did. That and how I took her **** in the name of "letting it slide because she was stressed". Well, no more.
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 (edited) Now that's a thing to say to get a woman to respect you. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: Women love compliments. hehehe I am just original and slick…. I know how to attract women. lol Edited October 3, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Edited for off topic and tasteless remark ~ V
Imported Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 How to treat a woman….(to make her respect you) You shouldn't have to think about it. 1
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 You shouldn't have to think about it. I never think
menyou Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 All a game. What's wrong with just being nice to each other? Spending time together? I honestly don't get why dating is so hard. You are either attracted physically, mentally & emotionally or you are not and you move on. So much time is wasted on bad relationships. And this goes both ways. The way men treat women and women treat men. 2
MoreAmore Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Please, tell me more what I, as a woman want. How else am I to know? 4
Rejected Rosebud Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 If you have to "make" people respect you maybe you should work on YOU a little bit?? Also what do you mean by "put her in her place"?? :confused: What is the "place" for a woman in a relationship with you?? FYI I am in a relationship with a man who I respect alot, it's mutual, he wouldn't be with a woman HE didn't respect too!! 7
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 First time in my life I had a woman attempt to emasculate me, and she did so, but it built up in me and when I saw her hide a guy, then attempt to tell me "we were done last week" to justify her own action(s), the fact she never showed she really cared about me, and then never fully commit either,,, All took their toll on me emotionally and I "put her in her place" verbally. It builds up you know. So I said "f-you", and it was a release of all that built up. Sometimes you just have to do what you have to. Did I go overboard given all I felt? I still don't know. I did a lot for her. I felt like I was played. And I'm the type of guy who will give the world to a woman and have.
katiegrl Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 (edited) OP, have you considered a personality transplant? LOL :rolleyes: If that's not an option, moving on from your ex (mentally, emotionally) would be good start. Women don't respect men who refuse to take steps to help themselves move on from their dysfunctional ex's... and take responsibility for their own role in the demise Edited October 3, 2015 by katiegrl 2
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 (edited) OP, have you considered a personality transplant? LOL :rolleyes: If that's not an option, moving on from your ex (mentally, emotionally) would be good start. Women don't respect men who refuse to take steps to help themselves move on from their dysfunctional ex's... and take responsibility for their own role in the demise Right now I am taking steps to start my 20+ mile cycling for the day/night. Edited October 3, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator More ironic and tasteless diatribe ~ V
mrldii Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 ...And I'm the type of guy who will give the world to a woman and have. Nice trait, admirable quality to have. You should wait 'til you actually *have* that women TO give the world to, before actually giving it to her. That way, you'll still have some in reserve just in case it doesn't work out with the women you've been dating for 2 hours/2 days/2 months/2 years/etc. 2
RoseVille Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 I Googled the phrase in your OP: "watch her face vulvaically glow with desirous urgency as the life-giving waters of his insistent masculinity pour into her thirsty feminine soul..." Now I see where you're getting the advise that's failing you. 4
katiegrl Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 I Googled the phrase in your OP: "watch her face vulvaically glow with desirous urgency as the life-giving waters of his insistent masculinity pour into her thirsty feminine soul..." Now I see where you're getting the advise that's failing you. Nice work RoseV! Busted! :bunny:
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 I Googled the phrase in your OP: "watch her face vulvaically glow with desirous urgency as the life-giving waters of his insistent masculinity pour into her thirsty feminine soul..." Now I see where you're getting the advise that's failing you. Its a page I ran into earlier, just looking through stuff. Overall I have my own ways and beliefs, basically the "I expect to be treated by women the same way I do them", and this is where a lot has been missing (since the ones I encounter don't seem to have that ability to be more than selfish). I don't go for large egos in women because I don't have one and don't like to look down on others and think "I am more advanced" somehow. That was a big player in my last girl,,,, that kind of **** just really made me turn off from her after a while. I very much like 'to the point" at times too, if it "says it like it is". I don't go for colorful language. Facts are what is is important to me.
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 Vulvaically is a beautiful word…. should be in Websters. Invokes feelings of a blooming flower. hehehe Roses are red, Violets are blue. Come lay in my bed, I know what to do. har har har
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 I never think That's probably the most honest and self-revealing thing you've said the entire time you've been here. 7
lollipopspot Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Thats why I have a cage in the basement,,,,, women who disagree with me go there… until there is room in the freezer. Now gimme a bit,,, I hear some screaming coming from the cage and have to go gag her (again) I have some space in the freezer,,,,, so might spend some time at the local park looking for more shark chum :0 When you threaten violence against women, even when you think you're joking, that says something really bad about you. This is a real thing, it really impacts women's activities and lives on a daily basis, and you're attracting a certain type of woman because you have a certain type of insensitivity yourself. 6
Author Guyouthere Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 That's probably the most honest and self-revealing thing you've said the entire time you've been here. Ohh la la hehehehe I'm a guy,,, never forget,,, we are made strictly for supplying the correct DNA to continue the human species. Anything else just serves to initiate that purpose. No need to think. Thats what a smart phone is for. Metro PCS is good. I get good reception here. :0
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Ohh la la hehehehe I'm a guy,,, never forget,,, we are made strictly for supplying the correct DNA to continue the human species. Anything else just serves to initiate that purpose. No need to think. Thats what a smart phone is for. Metro PCS is good. I get good reception here. :0
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