rustyhands Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Hi, Not sure where to start with this so here I go...... Earlier this year I started noticing attraction between myself and an employee at a family restaurant / pub that Me and my family have frequented for the last 10 or so years. As I was working in another remote part of the country I only got back every couple of months but still noticed our attraction still there. 4 months ago I came back for good and tried approaching her 2 times but unfortunately choked and I feel I came across week. She was also in my belief embarrassed and may have taken my anxiety for arrogance as I was staring into her eyes standing there like a jackass. A week later I went in again and she ignored me in the public bar and I felt she had maybe in retaliation put the staff on alert.......... So I backed off for 2 whole months not going there whilst I started to see other people. I went back 2 days ago for the first time in ages and she came to remove our drinks from the table and I accidentally left my phone on the tray without realising cos my heart was beating like crazy when she was next to me........ In a good way. So I kinda looked weak in my opinion as if I was leaving my phone there so she would put her number. It's pretty funny in the scheme of things ha ha. I fear I have given the impression that I no longer care or it has been to long of a time I gave her space............ Anyone had a similar situation or can help?
Frank2thepoint Posted October 4, 2015 Posted October 4, 2015 You're doing an odd job of convincing yourself of things that have not happened and living in fantasy. Plus you have self esteem issues, because you keep putting yourself down about looking weak. Best advice I can give you is work on your self esteem. Try to boost your confidence. Practice talking to other people, and women you are not attracted to so you don't choke. Eventually you'll have to take a risk and talk to this woman. It's really not that complicated.
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