sickandtiredOfex Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Every couple of months he messages me via email to ask if I want to hook up for fun, I just delete and ignore them. His latest was "meet me pls" the first few messages replied to were to tell him to leave me alone which he got nasty and gave me abuse, and told me I had sex with a friend of his cousins blah blah which I didn't the person made it up as he doesn't like my ex but either way if it were true it has nothing to do with him anyway. I stupidly had sex with him few months after he cruelly dumped me and he went back to ignoring me so hence the ignoring of him now, The fact I don't block him from mailing me is simple- to remind myself he is a loser and someone not to cared for. Thing I don't understand with this man is, he told me I was bad in bed and loose and I never made him ejaculate, so that would be reason enough to find someone else to have fun with. But I feel rather liberated because I no longer want him and can reject him, does he seriously think he is gods gift and every woman wants him? I've now transformed myself into a bit of an ok looking woman since he dumped me-I've long blonde hair and I'm slim and I'm not short of offers from men now and ex knows it because he even accused me of editing my pictures lol so the question is, even if it's begging for our company through sex or too meet up do dumpers not realise that dumpees are happier without them?
Xidion Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 It's for an ego boost and some form of control. Dumpers get a bit of an ego boost from the actual dumping and having someone be hurt over losing them. If he can get you to have sex with him after the fact, it gives him a tremendous ego boost, because he see's it as he can still control you. The reason he gets angry when you deny him, is she feels he has lost control, which he has.
Author sickandtiredOfex Posted October 3, 2015 Author Posted October 3, 2015 Well good, if he couldn't appreciate me during our thing going on, then he certainly doesn't get to have sex with me now...I don't need an ego boost but I'm happy with myself that I get to choose who I have sex with and he's nowhere on that list. Not that I have a list of anything, I've not had sex in over a year- kinda like a born again virgin saving myself for the right man. 1
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