CalvinM Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 She's 35, I'm 34. We're both newly out of relationships that ended early in the summer. First date we went to a pub near her place that she suggested, then went for a walk. I kissed her after we left the pub and it started getting cold, so I put my hands in my pocket, to which she hooked her arms around mine. I walked her to her apartment and she text me later that night to confirm a second date and suggested Saturday afternoon. This afternoon I confirmed a time and she sent me this text shortly after: "If you wanted to do a movie tomorrow, we could watch here, if you're okay with that." She's been pretty flirty since the date. Seems pretty obvious to me, but is she hinting at sex?
Terry8889 Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Just because she wants to watch a movie with you doesn't mean she wants sex lol. I have done it many times and it didn't mean I wanted that. Anyways just wait until the date and see what happens
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 She's 35, I'm 34. We're both newly out of relationships that ended early in the summer. ..... This afternoon I confirmed a time and she sent me this text shortly after: "If you wanted to do a movie tomorrow, we could watch here, if you're okay with that." She's been pretty flirty since the date. Seems pretty obvious to me, but is she hinting at sex? As she's the Older Woman () I'd go for the date, but let her take the lead... Watch her 'body language' (which may, or may not be so subtle). Also it depends what film she suggests. If it's "Alien meets the Zombie Apocalypse", then I'd say, just watch the movie. If it's "sexy Sadie romps all over Europe" I'd say you're in with a chance. Anything in between, and it's anyone's guess....!
road Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 You like this woman. You want to go out with her again. You got invited to spend time at her house. You worry about if your going to get sex which is unbelievable. It seems that you want sex more then a relationship for you are acting half your age. Going on about am I going to get some. There is a time an a place for everything. It should not matter when the sex happens. Whether after the 2nd date, 3rd, or a month. You should be wanting to date this woman because you see long term relationship potential, not is she going to put out on the 2nd date. You would be better served if you see sex as benefit of having a relationship instead of a reason for having a relationship.
phineas Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 I don't think I've ever gotten an invite to watch a movie back at a woman's place unless sex was an option. The few times it want happening, she would warn me about it when she invited me. Otherwise, in my experience, movie at her place=sex. pretty much this. Make the move but start off slow so you arn't acting like you expect sex. If the woman invites herself over to my place for a movie they are usually topless 10 mins. in.
d0nnivain Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 I wouldn't say it's a lay up but you definitely have scoring opportunities.
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Speaking as a woman, it doesn't always spell out straight up S.E.X. but there is a pretty good chance there's gonna be some kind of action In this particular scenario, it's better to let her take the lead. Good luck.
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