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His last text was, "Are we having dinner and sex next week?"

 

Unh, how creative. You need to date someone who is at least smart enough not to say something like that in a text message... esp. if you've not already been having sex. That just reeks of trailer park upbringing. And you validated it by actually responding? You should tell him it's going to be a few months before that happens and watch how fast he jumps in his muscle car and burns rubber.

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Unh, how creative. You need to date someone who is at least smart enough not to say something like that in a text message... esp. if you've not already been having sex. That just reeks of trailer park upbringing. And you validated it by actually responding? You should tell him it's going to be a few months before that happens and watch how fast he jumps in his muscle car and burns rubber.

 

 

I let him know that I would not be having sex with him and he would have to respect that. We will see if he even re contacts, esp. after his dates. I am okay, this is helping to take my mind completely off something else.

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Lie in the dog basket and you are gonna get fleas.

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Buddhist Established Member

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Fast cars (he has the luxury hot rods) I have one and like this too.

Shooting.

Racing.

Etc.

 

 

He kinda sounds dangerous. Ha ha.

 

Not really. He sounds like an extroverted sensor.....most people are extroverted sensors so hey, pretty normal. So you've found a guy who's really into sensory experience and you expected what? Sex to not be on the table? Come on.

 

- He's a guy.

- He likes things which make him feel good/give him an adrenalin rush

 

No mystery here.

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His last text was, "Are we having dinner and sex next week?" I told him THAT will not be happening and could he respect that and he said Ok.

 

This sounds pretty desperate on his part.

 

But at least he is coming right out and letting you know what he's about. If you choose to get involved with a guy chasing sex, you've got no one to blame but yourself.

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This is the type of douche bag I've always avoided at all costs.

 

I don't care to be a just another notch on some a*sshole's belt whose screwing his way through the alphabet.

 

If you think for one minute he's going to show you any respect on your date, you're sadly mistaken. He's made his intentions LOUD and clear.

 

Lastly, I advise a FULL body bag for you if you give in to Romeo. He's a walking STD looking to happen.

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He sounds like an extroverted sensor.....

 

 

Exactly- that's a problem the World Health Organization should be focusing on... it's a serious imbalance. How can the world create more introverted intuitives? The four ES types comprise more than half of the population, and the four INs are only only 1 percent each (total of 4, for the computationally challenged). Perhaps texting for dinner and sex makes them more prolific?

 

The solution is obvious... ladies, find a cute IN today, ask him if he'd be up for dinner and sex, then take him home and bang him senseless!

 

(INs of any gender are adorable, btw)

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As others have sad, if you want a ONS, keep talking to him.

 

Exactly- that's a problem the World Health Organization should be focusing on... it's a serious imbalance. How can the world create more introverted intuitives? The four ES types comprise more than half of the population, and the four INs are only only 1 percent each (total of 4, for the computationally challenged). Perhaps texting for dinner and sex makes them more prolific?

 

The solution is obvious... ladies, find a cute IN today, ask him if he'd be up for dinner and sex, then take him home and bang him senseless!

 

(INs of any gender are adorable, btw)

 

:love::love::love::love:

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The next time a woman on here wonders why there is a supposed double standard on sleeping around, I hope they'll read this thread. There is their answer.

 

Men today aren't anything... The ones you want OP are that way because it's what you're after.

 

You could be with a great man tomorrow if you wanted to be but you call those guys just friemds

 

And hence, the dating Sh#t fight of today continues because women simply flock to guys like this and then wonder 'where are all the good men'

 

Here's the answer.

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The next time a woman on here wonders why there is a supposed double standard on sleeping around, I hope they'll read this thread. There is their answer.

 

Men today aren't anything... The ones you want OP are that way because it's what you're after.

 

You could be with a great man tomorrow if you wanted to be but you call those guys just friemds

 

And hence, the dating Sh#t fight of today continues because women simply flock to guys like this and then wonder 'where are all the good men'

 

Here's the answer.

 

 

I have dated nice guys, even ones in bowties. This is just a distraction; I never said I was meeting him. On the part about nice guys, it would be so fantastic if there were nice guys out there who were exciting in the same way BUT with impulse control. But I suppose that is not possible.

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And hence, the dating Sh#t fight of today continues because women simply flock to guys like this and then wonder 'where are all the good men'

 

 

Who's flocking? This guy sounds awful to me. Give me the good, thoughtful (in both senses of the word) guy any day.

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I have dated nice guys, even ones in bowties. This is just a distraction; I never said I was meeting him. On the part about nice guys, it would be so fantastic if there were nice guys out there who were exciting in the same way BUT with impulse control. But I suppose that is not possible.

 

so you are just seeking attention. :sick:

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The solution is obvious... ladies, find a cute IN today, ask him if he'd be up for dinner and sex, then take him home and bang him senseless!

 

(INs of any gender are adorable, btw)

 

IN's love playing kinky games in the bedroom too....:laugh:

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All normal guys want sex.

 

The DIFFERENCE between a respectable man of dating quality and long term relationships versus someone who is a boy and simply out to bust his nut, is how he acts.

 

Bottom line is many women get attracted to the idiots out there, then wonder why they are left out on the floor after a while.

 

Plain and simple……

 

If you want a guy who will love you for you, act like you matter.

 

Act like you aren't shallow.

 

Stop looking for a guy who is "hot". Those guys know it, and play it.

 

I see it over and over again…. girl goes for hot guy, he treats her like ****. I once had a date long ago with a girl who married one. Bodybuilder, etc., fast life, she was attracted to it like many other younger and foolish women.

 

A year later he got really abusive and actually beat her.

 

Need I say more?

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Stop looking for a guy who is "hot". Those guys know it, and play it.

 

I see it over and over again…. girl goes for hot guy, he treats her like ****.

 

Not disagreeing with your main point at all. But having been in a longterm relationship with a hot guy and about to date another one, they're not all bad. My most abusive and worst relationship was with the least good looking one actually.

 

But in the main you can tell a loser from a keeper by the way they treat you, not the way they look. There are decent hot guys too, but not at all implying the one described by this thread falls into that category.

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Not disagreeing with your main point at all. But having been in a longterm relationship with a hot guy and about to date another one, they're not all bad. My most abusive and worst relationship was with the least good looking one actually.

 

But in the main you can tell a loser from a keeper by the way they treat you, not the way they look. There are decent hot guys too, but not at all implying the one described by this thread falls into that category.

 

So true ^^^^

 

It's obvious very quickly if a guy is respectful. And he'd better be respectful and respectable ...if he wants to close the deal ...but not a ONS deal.

 

OP ...are you going out with this guy? The guy who put lots of sex on a list even before you met him??!! and an out of town guy to boot? Hmmm ...are you being respectable to yourself? I'm sure he's hot and all but that's what I like to call a time waster. If a guy brings up the sex stuff too soon ...it's not happening. His loss ...and what a loss.

 

I'm doing the OLD thing and it's really obvious when talking on the phone who the good fun guys are ...and good fun guys can be just as hot. My issue is the lack of education and emotional intelligence of the dating pool I'm in. But that's subject for another thread ...sigh

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Hi Miss Blonde and absolutely not! No, I was speaking with him and he got really pissed when I did not give in to the sex talk. No way. Another online weirdo.

fitnessfan365 Established Member

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On the part about nice guys, it would be so fantastic if there were nice guys out there who were exciting in the same way BUT with impulse control. But I suppose that is not possible.

 

Well you've admitted to not having much experience. So you just haven found a guy with both sides. It did take me YEARS to develop both equally with women though. I always had a handle on romance and being caring. But what gets a woman's panties truly soaked is sexual dominance. Being really assertive seems counter-intuitive to being a "good guy". But once a guy realizes that a woman is human with desires and urges taking her off the pedistal, it all makes sense.

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