BasketballLife Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 So today I saw my ex, I usually see her a couple times a week, and our conversations are light. But a few days ago I learned from someone about our past that upsetted me alot and I asked her about it, we seemed to talk a bit and then not wanting to cause anything I closed it saying it was no biggie, and we resumed to talk, although now when she texts me its a little different and not those short replies we always give each other. Anyways, I saw her today and we said hey, I "walked her to class" sort of (although I told her I was going to bathroom) I did no intend to do what I did, I had no idea her class was right there. But when we were departing, she was lingering at the doorway waiting for me to do something, as if she wanted me to hug her or something. When that thought came to mind, I quickly said "bye" and walked off, and which she also replied bye (sort of sharply). This was very awkward because I am very soft-hearted when it comes to exes. And if I didn't leave at the moment, I feel like I would have done something I regretted. But, my question is is she interested again? The thing I asked her about was I was told that she told the person that she was pressured to say yes when I asked her out. Turns out it was partially true, she said she felt pressured but not enough to deny me. (Or maybe thats a lie...).
Zippy2000 Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Its all in your mind. Shes an EX and and an ex is an ex for a reason. If she wants to be with you then she can contact you. She knows where you are and your contact details. Please stop reading into everything. Theres nothing here in your post to say she wants back with you. Just your interpretation.
Author BasketballLife Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 Its all in your mind. Shes an EX and and an ex is an ex for a reason. If she wants to be with you then she can contact you. She knows where you are and your contact details. Please stop reading into everything. Theres nothing here in your post to say she wants back with you. Just your interpretation. Alright, that eases it alittle.
Zippy2000 Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Sorry to sound blunt my friend. So okay. What are you wanting out of this? Are you wanting her back?
Author BasketballLife Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 Sorry to sound blunt my friend. So okay. What are you wanting out of this? Are you wanting her back? Is a sense, no, but I have a tender spot for her. Its kind of complicated. Its like I miss her but don't really want to get any closer than friends.
Zippy2000 Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Then you dont have to worry about her getting back with you. She is now a FRIEND so just treat her like any other friend. If she wanted you back then she will ask you. Being friends with an ex can happen. I have a couple of ex`s Im still friends with. If you dont anything more then make yourself scarce.
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