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Do you have to have sex before becoming bf/gf


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how else do you know if you're sexually compatible?

most people are sexually compatible, why else would we have more than 7 billion people on earth

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it's not ridiculous if it's true. you set boundaries and men respect them. are you trying to say all men do this? because i'm sure you'll have lots of men who believe it's ridiculous and unfair to group them into that category. sorry you've been unlucky. keep trying for better partners.

 

It is ridiculous to deny that this is a common occurrence. It may be true for you. But countless women (and sure, many men) have experienced this pressure. It's sort of like 'I've never experienced bullying, so it doesn't exist'. *sticks nose in the air*

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you set boundaries and men respect them.

 

If only it were this simple, then countless women wouldn't be raped or molested. Wow.

 

(And yes, men get raped too. If you're going to accuse me of sexism, flip the genders and same goes :rolleyes:).

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If only it were this simple, then countless women wouldn't be raped or molested. Wow.

 

(And yes, men get raped too. If you're going to accuse me of sexism, flip the genders and same goes :rolleyes:).

 

But even not rising to the level of rape - pressure can be subtler and make him or her feel like they have to or they will lose the person

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Like always asking to come over to my house even though I said I wouldn't be comfortable with that at the moment

 

If a guy didn't get it the FIRST time I told him, I would just stop responding to his texts and calls.

 

For me it would be NEXT. Bye.

 

I asked this on another thread too, but when did guys become so brazen?

 

Jesus.

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If a guy didn't get it the FIRST time I told him, I would just stop responding to his texts and calls.

 

For me it would be NEXT. Bye.

 

I asked this on another thread too, but when did guys become so brazen?

 

Jesus.

 

When I was single I never felt brazen; shy actually

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When I was single I never felt brazen; shy actually

 

I know but you're special.... :bunny::bunny::laugh:

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I know but you're special.... :bunny::bunny::laugh:

 

I doubt that was it. Just awkward

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I doubt that was it. Just awkward

 

What ya talking about? Awkward can be special if that awkward someone is the right someone, come on now.... :)

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What ya talking about? Awkward can be special if that awkward someone is the right someone, come on now.... :)

 

Well I guess my spouse doesn't mind

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Being bf/gf and having sex are independent things. Neither implies the other.

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