Trane Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Some of the best times I've had was when a woman spelled it right out in plain english and told me what she wanted. I was introduced by friend from a friend who was going through a "down" time like me. We chatted, grabbed a quit bite and had a couple of drinks. Hours later I'm rocking her world and she enjoying every minute of it without any preconceived negative feelings on either part. I still respect her the same. It was getting down to business without any mental barriers. Sometimes this is the best kind of sex. What holds women back from doing this when sometimes you know it's all you really want?
mrldii Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 * Society's fascination with the 'Madonna-Whore' complex; * The double-standard that [still] exists that men who sleep around are "studs" and women who sleep around are "hos"; * The saying, "Never try to make a ho a wife" and all that goes along with that; * The belief that a woman who has sex with YOU 'too soon' will have sex with EVERY...SINGLE...GUY 'too soon', too to name just a few. I'm sure other people will contribute other reasons as to "What holds women back from [having sex] when sometimes you know it's all you really want". 4
kendahke Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Maybe she wants to avoid being called a sl-ut by you and others? Men say they want a woman who does this, but they also want to be able to call women who like sex for sex's sake sluts. Perhaps these women are trying to avoid the harassment, hassle, sl-ut-shaming and just use innuendo to get the point across. and what mrldii said. 1
William Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 There's no need for using pejorative and berating language anymore, regardless of intent, so let's dispense with it. The alternative is moderation so move on from 'making a housewife out of a ho' and similar. Why can't women say they just want to have sex? Valid topic. Please continue, sans the language. Thank you.
JasmineJones Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Some of the best times I've had was when a woman spelled it right out in plain english and told me what she wanted. I was introduced by friend from a friend who was going through a "down" time like me. We chatted, grabbed a quit bite and had a couple of drinks. Hours later I'm rocking her world and she enjoying every minute of it without any preconceived negative feelings on either part. I still respect her the same. It was getting down to business without any mental barriers. Sometimes this is the best kind of sex. What holds women back from doing this when sometimes you know it's all you really want? The thing that holds women back from saying they want sex with you is the fact that they actually do not want sex with you. If a woman wants sex with you, she will let you know. 3
LilaMarie Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 The thing that holds women back from saying they want sex with you is the fact that they actually do not want sex with you. If a woman wants sex with you, she will let you know. Hahaha so true! 1
thecrucible Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 It's not very sexy to be blunt about that kind of thing. I think to a guy, the idea of a woman (one he finds attractive) bluntly telling him she wants to have hot sex with him is a turn on. In reality, maybe the mystery is sexier. Do you think if this actually happened you would really be turned on by it? I think, possibly not. Also, why be explicit about something when the implication should be obvious?
Buddhist Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 . What holds women back from doing this when sometimes you know it's all you really want? The fact that 99% of all males, except you, will not have this attitude. They will gladly take the sex then immediately devalue the woman they just had it with afterwards. Can't say I blame women for not wanting to be part of that dynamic. The good news is - you've now advertised yourself as a non-judgemental free sex machine. Expect a bunch of PMs.....
joseb Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 Hahaha so true! So what, unless she says she wants to have sex with you, she doesnt? Really? I can only recal one time where a woman flat out said she wanted to have sex like that Almost always its conveyed in tone,body language, casual touches,etc.
MrMeh Posted October 3, 2015 Posted October 3, 2015 I always feel bad for girls in these situations. Kinda makes me even sadder when I hear girls put down another girl for simply being open with themselves. I can understand though because during high school, I used to always say "bitch" and "slut". As I matured, I noticed that my own insecurities kept me away from the very thing I wanted.
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