SpiritDancer Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I have a dilemma. Since January I have had a 20yo who is constantly asking me out. Not on dates mind you, he only wants one thing. I've chatted to him for a while at times (because I used to work with him) but then slowly faded out but every couple of months he contacts me again and every couple of months the day after he contacts me I get a call offering me an interview at the place he works. This time I told him in no uncertain terms that he was in a different part of his life that I was and I don't do 'one night stands' (I'm 27 btw) but this time he's replied 'I didn't say anything about a one night stand' now I don't believe him. He's young and I can read him pretty easily, he's not good at hiding things but I haven't seen him for almost a year and he's still contacting me. I'm not attracted to him, he's too young in my opinion but he just can't seem to get the hint or he's not taking it. What should I do/say to him? I'm seriously confused because I've never had someone so young so aggressively try to get with me.
Author SpiritDancer Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 Just ignore him ?Where is the dilemma? I've been ignoring him. He literally won't give up. If its not texts its calls.
h0000 Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I've been ignoring him. He literally won't give up. If its not texts its calls. Keep ignoring? Is it hard? If you find it hard you can block his number?
Buddhist Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Block, ignore, do not answer phone calls, change your number. Not exactly the most difficult thing in the world. He keeps contacting you because you keep responding.
Author SpiritDancer Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 Keep ignoring? Is it hard? If you find it hard you can block his number? Block, ignore, do not answer phone calls, change your number. Not exactly the most difficult thing in the world. He keeps contacting you because you keep responding. TBH I'm a little apprehensive about completely ignoring him. I mean he's 20, I know what young guys are like when they don't get there way especially as he's been at it for nearly 10 months. I'm worried that if I reject him in a hurtful way he'll lash out in some other way. He doesn't have anything on me but the industry we both work in is small.
h0000 Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I think your worrying too much here. It's been 10 months has he lashed out yet? No Plus what is this "I know what young guys like when they don't get what they want"? Just because they are young doesn't mean they are crazy
Author SpiritDancer Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 I think your worrying too much here. It's been 10 months has he lashed out yet? No Plus what is this "I know what young guys like when they don't get what they want"? Just because they are young doesn't mean they are crazy He has a book that he likes to write everything in. He's very brash and loud but yeah I'm probably worrying too much but I heard everything about every girl he 'dated' whilst I worked at the same place as him.
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