wa14ojr Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 There is this girl who is my ex. We only went out for three days but I had fallen in love with and still am. I guess I will start from the beginning. I moved to a new town the day before school started. On the first day of school I went through all the classes. Then came the 8th and final class of the day. There was this girl that I just found beautiful in unexplainable way. The next day I made a friend while on the bus heading to school. Couple days later I found out that on that second day that specific girl had asked him out and he agreed. So that relationship went on for the first two weeks of school. However on the Wednesday of the second week which is a late start day so as a result my lunch is different from hers and his on Wednesdays. Before school had started he broke up with her. During those two weeks that they were dating I had began to hang out with her due to me being friends with her boyfriend. So when he broke up with her I decided to console her. Along with me was another friend who also wanted console her though he only did it because he wanted to go out with her. He had to go a different direction in order to get to his first class. When me and her were walking the same way she asked me if I wanted to go out with her, not thinking about her emotional state, I said yes. I was just happy that she had asked me. So we went out for Wednesday Thursday and Friday. For Thursday and Friday I had gone to school early via my parent's car since I didn't want her to have to wait for me since the school bus always gets to school late. By that point I had made it obvious that I would be going to school early from now on just for her. Apparently, during a fair that was taking place over the weekend, she had kissed her ex while we were still going out. That didn't faze me whatsoever (though I didn't find out until the day after the break up thanks to that same friend who also consoled her. He only told me after I bribed him though.). What did faze me however, was the days that followed shortly afterwards. See on Monday there are I am waiting and waiting well as it turned out she was already there but hadn't bothered to come and tell me herself that she was breaking up with me. Instead, surrounded by a bunch for friends she walked by and one of her friends said "she's breaking up with you" all she said was "friends?" with a nervous smile. I remained calm and collected and played it off as if I was okay with it because it was what she wanted (and I didn't want to make it harder on her). I asked why and her friends said "depression " as she was about to speak up. I left it at that and went to science (My first class). I cried throughout the entirety of science class because I couldn't hold it in when she wasn't around. Upon reaching my second class I asked the teacher if I could go to the office to request leave of absence due to emotional instability. He let me and I left for the day. Then the events of Tuesday happened which is pretty much just me finding out what she did but not confronting her about it. On Wednesday, that friend that I bribed asked her out and she said agreed. Then Friday rolls around and there's a football game she asked me if I'm going to attend and I said I would. At the football game we were laying together us three watching it and during the fourth quarter I randomly broke out into tears and then she and my friend pull me towards them and us three embraced. Us three, all together sharing a hug. It didn't help. It just made me feel guilty because she wasn't my girl anymore she was his. I said that I still care about her and that is why I can't let them hug me. So my friend and I went down behind the bleachers while she waited for us to come back. We both ended up crying. He was crying about how he tries to help but can't. I sucked it up and help him out because I've always been able to help when me and the other person are hurting emotionally. Then I told him that we we're opposites. I also said "we have someone who we can make happy" and then I pointed to where she was and I stated "let's make her happy, that's all we can do." So we both go back, he is still teary eyed and I am dried up. We all put arms on each others shoulders for several minutes and then things are good. Next week rolls by, on Wednesday she breaks up with him with a note. I still don't know what the note said. So I am on my bike walking with her to her house. And I nagged her several times about using her words when it comes to breaking up. I also got to know her a tad better. The next day she ends up going out with one of my worst enemies. This only lasted from Thursday to Monday however. Now it's next week's Friday and there wasn't any school on Thursday or Friday for this week. I am more and more frequently having dreams about happily living with her carrying her around loving her just in general being in love her. It's at this point that I realized that I am truly in love with her even though it's extremely volatile with the way she seems to date. At this point I have no idea what to do. I have so many questions so little answers. And I love her so much. But I just can't bring myself to tell her as I'm afraid that she will think that I'm strange or weird in a creepy way because of it. And I can't stand to lose her. Somebody please help me figure this out I'm losing my mind.
mightycpa Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Wow, this girl gets around, doesn't she? She's going out with like 3 or 4 guys in just a couple of weeks. Why don't you just ask her to go out with all of you? She can choose a day for each of you, and that way, everybody will get a little of her time. You can rotate dates to football games, basketball, and dances and stuff. That way, nobody is cut out, and nobody has to worry about breaking up and who she's going to date next week 1
coryreply Posted October 6, 2015 Posted October 6, 2015 I feel bad for you. I had a girlfriend just like this when I was young. She made her way through all of my friends in no time. There was just something special about her. I never could get her out of my head. She's a heart-breaker, dude. You can keep playing this game with her, but it will always end with you heartbroken.
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