Dopher87 Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I guess you cant change the past you have to let it go. It sucks. I hate living with that shes awesome now shes getting boned by another dude. shes blocked me from everything (ANGRY). Long distance sucks
louxor Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I guess you cant change the past you have to let it go. It sucks. I hate living with that shes awesome now shes getting boned by another dude. shes blocked me from everything (ANGRY). Long distance sucks You know what you have to do. You know how you feel if you don't let it go - she's doing you a favour by blocking you - you can't deal with the things she's doing right now and why would you want to anyway? You live and you learn, take your mistakes and make yourself a better person from them. Dwelling on the mistakes of the past does one thing and one thing only - It holds you back.
Author Dopher87 Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 Thanks man. I know I made mistakes, We didn't have enough sex, Damnit its hard! GOt to learn to forgive forget myself and move on right
louxor Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 Thanks man. I know I made mistakes, We didn't have enough sex, Damnit its hard! GOt to learn to forgive forget myself and move on right Don't even look at it like that. You didn't have enough sex for her, it's not your fault that you were on different levels when it came to that, people are just different. When you find someone that you don't match with and changes are too difficult to be made to fix this miss-match, you move on to someone better suited.
Author Dopher87 Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 Don't even look at it like that. You didn't have enough sex for her, it's not your fault that you were on different levels when it came to that, people are just different. When you find someone that you don't match with and changes are too difficult to be made to fix this miss-match, you move on to someone better suited. I lived with her for 60 days in sweden. But she told me she wanted us to have more sex, I just wanted companionship more. But I do regret that, It drove her away, and we always talked things out But i felt i was married to her already, we knew eachother for just about a year. She was my first love, And my first time.
louxor Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I lived with her for 60 days in sweden. But she told me she wanted us to have more sex, I just wanted companionship more. But I do regret that, It drove her away, and we always talked things out But i felt i was married to her already, we knew eachother for just about a year. She was my first love, And my first time. Just because she wanted more sex and you wanted more companionship doesn't make it your fault. You both just wanted something else, it's simple. There is nothing wrong with not being good match with someone you felt you were, you just have to learn to accept that these things happen. There are plenty of people out there who are better matched for you. In regards to her being your first time, I posted this for someone else the other day in regards to the same thing, so it may help you: "I think you may be attached to her because she was the one you lost your virginity to, which can be a big thing to give up to another person. I would suggest trying to mess around with other girls and you'll realise there is plenty out there who are just as fun, if not better. You have nothing to compare her to sexually because she was your first - that may be another reason it is harder for you because without a comparison, what you had with her may seem to have been perfect when the chances are it wasn't." As for her being you first love, it will be hard to get over because she's your first, so you have nothing to compare it to so you don't know if you truly loved her as much as you think you did. You may look back in the future and smile at how stupid you had been to be so caught up in this - Only time will tell.
Author Dopher87 Posted October 2, 2015 Author Posted October 2, 2015 (edited) Just because she wanted more sex and you wanted more companionship doesn't make it your fault. You both just wanted something else, it's simple. There is nothing wrong with not being good match with someone you felt you were, you just have to learn to accept that these things happen. There are plenty of people out there who are better matched for you. In regards to her being your first time, I posted this for someone else the other day in regards to the same thing, so it may help you: "I think you may be attached to her because she was the one you lost your virginity to, which can be a big thing to give up to another person. I would suggest trying to mess around with other girls and you'll realise there is plenty out there who are just as fun, if not better. You have nothing to compare her to sexually because she was your first - that may be another reason it is harder for you because without a comparison, what you had with her may seem to have been perfect when the chances are it wasn't." As for her being you first love, it will be hard to get over because she's your first, so you have nothing to compare it to so you don't know if you truly loved her as much as you think you did. You may look back in the future and smile at how stupid you had been to be so caught up in this - Only time will tell. I was her 3rd or 4th Bf as I recall but she's moved on completely I was stalking her Playing dota 2, She always plays with this one guy (LIKE WE DID) and he's local So shes sleeeping with him But Im just jealous since I'm 28 now only have had 1 girlfriend. who knows how long til I get another awesome girl like her, but I need to work on myself first. Edited October 2, 2015 by Dopher87
louxor Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I was her 3rd or 4th Bf as I recall but she's moved on completely I was stalking her Playing dota 2, She always plays with this one guy (LIKE WE DID) and he's local So shes sleeeping with him But Im just jelious since I'm 28 now only have had 1 gf So what if she's playing a game with someone else now? Why should it concern you at all? If you want any chance at moving on, behaviour like this will not help...at all. It will actually do the opposite - it will send you backwards. What does the amount of partners she's had when compared to you have anything to do with this?
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