Author Jacobclassified Posted December 10, 2015 Author Posted December 10, 2015 And she told you that she would be faithful to you. Why does she as the cheater get to keep the house, the bank account, and everything else and you get nothing? Why are you handicapping yourself in your quest to rebuild your life by not having your fair share of the financial resources that you have worked so hard to earn? Why do you need to keep any agreement with her, when she broke the most basic terms of your marriage agreement (said publicly in your vows) when she cheated? Stop trying to impress her with your false macho pride. She broke the faith with you when she cheated. You are not bound by anything after that. With child support you are already going to be tight on cash, do not be a chump and give her a financial reward for cheating that she will spend in her pursuit of other men. Your next significant other, and the children that you may have with her, will be denied financial benefits that you may have been able to afford had you not made this foolish decision that you will later feel stupid for making. 1, I have the kids not her. No child support on my end nor do I need her to pay it. "Part of the deal for full custody" 2 , I divorced her 3, I told her she could have everything years ago should we seperate. Either fighting, falling out of love or cheating normallyis the cause for most divorces. I took it into account when I told her that. I have a better paying job it made more sense for me to leave. 4 she can spend every dime on ale strippers for all I care. Who and what she does is no longer my concern. If she burns through it.. 5, set to inherit several properties and decent amount of money from my parents.. I'm not really to concerned about fighting over a house foolish? Maybe. But I'm not concerned. I got all I wanted. My kids. Everything else can be replaced and time will heal everything money can't buy. 3
Ms. Faust Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 1, I have the kids not her. No child support on my end nor do I need her to pay it. "Part of the deal for full custody" 2 , I divorced her 3, I told her she could have everything years ago should we seperate. Either fighting, falling out of love or cheating normallyis the cause for most divorces. I took it into account when I told her that. I have a better paying job it made more sense for me to leave. 4 she can spend every dime on ale strippers for all I care. Who and what she does is no longer my concern. If she burns through it.. 5, set to inherit several properties and decent amount of money from my parents.. I'm not really to concerned about fighting over a house foolish? Maybe. But I'm not concerned. I got all I wanted. My kids. Everything else can be replaced and time will heal everything money can't buy. I am happy you have the kids, all that matters is that you provide them a stable household. Move up, move on. Good job, and good luck!!!
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