kylie. Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 I am 20 years old. He is 18. I met him on New Years and we were very close, very quick. We made it official in March. Throughout those first few months things were good. We had a couple bad fights but always worked through them. He told me that he loved me and confessed it in tears. As the summer began he told me that I was wife material and that he saw a future with me. I was so happy. I felt content with this guy and was completely myself. In July he began to change. He told me he felt like he had to choose between what he wanted in the future (me) and how he wanted to be as an 18 year old. We took a week break and he came back to me saying that he wanted us and he was positive. We went on a family vacation to TN for ten days where we grew even closer. We told each other we were falling in love. A week after coming back from TN he told me that he felt different and that maybe we were just friends. He ended it. This was a month and a half ago. That first month we had zero contact. Not a single text. Once that month went by I stopped at his house and left a bag of his shirts and stuff on his car. He texted me saying thanks and made small talk. He told me during that conversation that he cared about me but he did not want a relationship again. He admitted that I had made him happy and he agreed that we had messed each other up. A week has gone by since then and nothing from him. I miss him so much. I guess my question is do you think he will be back and what should I do overall? I genuinely cared about him so much and I was begininng to see a future with him too. Do you think that his silence is a sure sign he's moving on? Or do you think he needs time to get all this stuff out of his system? Do you think he will come back and if he does will it be genuine? Should I move on? Please help. I'm full of unanswered questions. Thank you
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