Itachi Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 Hello everyone! I'm new here! I'm in the process of moving on and joined here as a way to vent out my feelings and move on in a dignified and healthy way. It first began with my girlfriend of 3 years. We initially started as friends and we fell for each other as we work closely together. We do have a unique relationship at that time because we had a 15 year age gap.. I'm the younger one. But for me that wasn't really an issue. We were doing great for 3 years and eventually she asked me to settle down with her and I really wanted to but unfortunately I have family obligations that need to be dealt with. Then one day, she called me and said she's seeing someone and said we should just be friends. I felt devastated and betrayed! She dated this guy for 3-4 months but she still had feelings for me because she texted me and said she missed me. We decided to give our relationship another try but last month she became cold and distant. I just realize she was still in contact with the other guy. Long story short, our relationship and communication broke down. I was really hurt and felt like I was a fool. I talked to her last week and told her I'm letting her go. She asked me "Is this what you wanted?" and I replied "That's your decision. It's not mine. You know where I stand with you." And so, I'm in the process of letting her go. It's very hard and tough. I love her and I miss her everyday. Yet no matter what I say or do, she made her decision and choice. I just need to heal and move on. I know myself and I really gave it my best but sometimes it still doesn't work. I'm realistic too that I won't see or hear from her for a while. What are the best ways to move on and heal from this heartache. Thanks everyone! Much love!
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