Apparition Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 I've come to learn that most people who are dumped and/or the people who do the dumping due to heart-break (partner cheating, lying etc) are the ones who are most hard on themselves. We beat ourselves up. We criticize ourselves to the extreme. So, this is for those people who do so. You are all beautiful people. Beautiful people who deserve love. Not just, "love", but pure love. Where someone wants you as much as you want them. And you deserve to be happy. Happiness will come to you regardless of whether or not your ex is in your life because as human beings our bodies take care of us. It heals our wounds, it allows us to grieve loss, it fills us with emotions we sometimes forget we had, or didn't know we had at all. Regardless, happiness will come to us in time. And you may end up with an ex from your past again, no one can tell you on here your future, OR you will end up being with someone completely new. Life happens. In the end, it all pans out where everything should be. But, in the meantime, be kind to yourself. 9
Samuel_22 Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 I've come to learn that most people who are dumped and/or the people who do the dumping due to heart-break (partner cheating, lying etc) are the ones who are most hard on themselves. We beat ourselves up. We criticize ourselves to the extreme. So, this is for those people who do so. You are all beautiful people. Beautiful people who deserve love. Not just, "love", but pure love. Where someone wants you as much as you want them. And you deserve to be happy. Happiness will come to you regardless of whether or not your ex is in your life because as human beings our bodies take care of us. It heals our wounds, it allows us to grieve loss, it fills us with emotions we sometimes forget we had, or didn't know we had at all. Regardless, happiness will come to us in time. And you may end up with an ex from your past again, no one can tell you on here your future, OR you will end up being with someone completely new. Life happens. In the end, it all pans out where everything should be. But, in the meantime, be kind to yourself. Last night I was thinking, well one day I will find the one, that special person who will give me the love I deserve, and I will love that person more than anything else in the world, I have got rid of visions of my ex, I tried to visualize that special person, who is out there, tried to imagine what she is doing, how she looks, how fun and lovable she is, I tried to picture her scent, and wow that was a magnificent experience... but I will slap her the first day I see her!! huh ''You should have showed up a lot faster.'' I will say Good luck! Remember that special person is out there, our exes were probably not the ones, and we should be happy we understood that... so we took another step forward to the one!
MrReborn Posted October 1, 2015 Posted October 1, 2015 We beat ourselves up. We criticize ourselves to the extreme. I know it sounds harsh, but that's actually the best way to go. If you're having a hard time with relationships and it keeps on repeating itself, then obviously there are some changes you have to make to your lifestyle. Some people say they'll never change, which is actually the 100% way to look at things, yet it's half true. You should never change who you are, but you should correct the areas that you fail in and become a better version of the person you were in the past. It's people like this who generate happiness and warmth around others because they were willing to fight in order to make themselves happy. When your happy, it shows in how you present yourself and encourages others to do the same. 2
singme2sleep Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 OP thanks for this. I truly hope you're right. I actually made it the whole day without crying but I still miss him.
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