stillafool Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 Doesn't this man have a girlfriend? Why are you still interested? 1
Author AugustSnow Posted October 1, 2015 Author Posted October 1, 2015 I've made a thread a few months ago about a crush I had on a janitor I've made a thread about the contract with the janitorial company he works for not being renewed and me being the only person he told (everyone else didn't know until the his last day), and no one answered for whatever reason. Well, we have exchanged phone numbers (I'm the only one there he gave his number too just like I'm the only one he told he was leaving), and I even went ahead and told him that we should hang out sometime and that this isn't goodbye but see you later. Now as far as what I say to him, rather than me overthinking what to say, I sent him a message this morning regarding something I've heard on the news this morning that had something to do with someone he told me about a few months ago. He texted back saying good morning and responded with astonishment because the news story was crazy lol. If nothing else, at least I gained a friendship out of this and I am grateful for that. We shall see what happens from here.
mystikmind2005 Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 He's a JANITOR. Aim higher. women who think 'aiming higher' for shallow reasons like that that are the ones caring men would be wise to avoid. 3
Tobin Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 Hey there's nothing wrong with a woman seeking out a partner who makes a good living so she can be sure her eventually family isn't living in borderline poverty from paycheck to paycheck. Honestly the sort of guy who works as a janitor is not going to have the same intelligence as a guy who designs rockets for NASA.
loveflower Posted October 10, 2015 Posted October 10, 2015 Hey there's nothing wrong with a woman seeking out a partner who makes a good living so she can be sure her eventually family isn't living in borderline poverty from paycheck to paycheck. Honestly the sort of guy who works as a janitor is not going to have the same intelligence as a guy who designs rockets for NASA. and he is much much older than op too... I am the one who is really astonished.
mystikmind2005 Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 Hey there's nothing wrong with a woman seeking out a partner who makes a good living so she can be sure her eventually family isn't living in borderline poverty from paycheck to paycheck. Honestly the sort of guy who works as a janitor is not going to have the same intelligence as a guy who designs rockets for NASA. Well age is an issue that is not beyond reasonable to consider, but career is a very shallow reasoning, with a hint of bigotry
William Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 Folks, we merged three threads on this topic for context so there may be some duplication of content. Additionally, let's focus on the relationship, which the starter now describes as a friendship, rather than labeling people personally, whether that be fellow members or the thread starter or the subject of this topic. Thanks!
readynow Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 OP, at 53 and 31, do you think there is any chance of this working? I take it you want marriage and kids, hasn't he finished with that? Is he now unemployed then? I'm just worried about you crushing on someone who has nothing realistic to offer or the willingness to offer it. You hang on every word or action from him, which can't be healthy in any context. Calling you by your nickname means nothing. Nothing. Not worth changing your thread title over. The man has your number now. Why not stop texting him and allow him keep in touch if he wants?
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