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foolinlove79

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foolinlove79 Established Member

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I used to hate when people posted on here about bu being ok. But i really want to share this with anyone who is hurting...my ex and i were on and off for 6 years. The end was not good and he dumped me via email. That was in april and since then he has met someone else who has moved in and taken on a mother role to his kids, got to know all his friends etc. They seem very happy. I was pretty upset at first and had all the standard questions..how could he treat me like this. How could he move on so fast etc.

 

I have come to realise so many things about relationships and life from this experience but.

 

1. Just because you love someone doesnt mean you should be together or can make each other happy.

2. You will never understand another persons actions so you need to accept what is and what has happened and let it go.

3. Bu is a big change. But there is a big wide world out there with many people to meet and experiences to have. You need to build up your own life again. One that you love and you can do that. It takes time but it can be done.

4. Dont tell yourself you wont meet anyone else you can care about. There arw billions of people on the planet ao logically its more likely you will meet someone else then not. And probably someone who is more compatible for you too.

5. Not every rs is supposed to last forever. Some are to help you grow and learn more about yourself. Try to learn something from it. Wether it be something you will do better next time or something you wont accept again. There are lessons to be learned.

 

You will be ok. You will be happy again. You were a complete person before you even knew your ex and you will be again. Maybe you are right where you need to be in life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Xx

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David87 Established Member

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I love this:Just because you love someone doesnt mean you should be together or can make each other happy.

 

Glad to hear youre ok.

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erklat Established Member

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I love this:Just because you love someone doesnt mean you should be together or can make each other happy.

 

Glad to hear youre ok.

 

Hi dude, welcome back.

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