Ivk Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 So me and my now ex gf had been together for a while, and she has recently broken up with me and I can't even handle it right now, I'm a mess. I honestly don't know what to do, I love this girl, I can't see my life without her. She broke up with me But still wants to kinda have a thing with me so we can still get with each other and sleep with each other etc, but it's like torture for me because I can't bare to stand the thought of her getting with other guys or being able to. I've never felt so emotionally insecure in my life, I feel so unstable and sick. I have no motivation to do anything I just sit by myself and let thoughts poison my mind, I spend my days waiting 9+ hours for her to even reply to a text, it's like I've just become an option for her, I don't even have friends to talk to about this because they're always with their girlfriends and quite frankly I feel like a little bitch for feeling like this. I don't know wtf is wrong with me. I feel like I'm losing my mind and I've seriously thought about seeing a psychiatrist but I don't know how that would help. I actually hate myself for feeling like this for someone, this girl has broken the idea of love for me, I never want to fall for a girl again, I never want to go through this again. Sorry for the rant I needed to let something out and I would really appreciate some of your experiences and advice
sbk24 Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 Hi, Sorry to hear about your situation, if you do not mind me asking can I just ask a few facts like ages and how long the relationship was. So basically you are saying that she wants to be f*** buddies and you want a relationship? Then IMO you just have to cut all ties as she is just going to mess you up completely. I understand that you love her and it is going to really hurt but you do not want to prolong the pain with her stringing you along and using you. Take it from this view, basically she is saying you are not good enough and that you are there because I have nobody else. You will be there used as a tool until I found someone else. So why should you be put second best? Sorry it might seem harsh but you deserve better and can do better.
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