JSCG Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 So.. I need advice. I dont know how this works but I hope to have come to the right place. I dated this girl from like 2nd grade all the way to senior year in highschool. very off and on.. due to various reasons. (Broke up over stupid stuff, moved away twice..) We have so much history. She was very much into me and very loyal over the years. I, however, was not the nicest guy to her all the time. (I used her for sex basically towards the end) Then college hit and I moved away. She was very upset. She even drove cross country to help me move and she cried in my arms all night as I slept like a baby. (Just trying to give you an idea) I was always loyal to her though. Anyways, She went off to a different college and we just ended up as friends. (Very good friends at that). Then, we had a massive fight about her not showing up to something that was huge to me. (That was 3 years ago - I didnt talk to her even once - So stupid of me) Now, I am 30. (nearly 10 years later since we actually started dating) I have very much wised up on how to treat a lady. Well, we are both very successful. (Most of my success has come within these 3 years during the time period of not talking) We are completely different people now but I hit her up for the first time yesterday and we are kicking things back up.. (I am going to her house for a couple beers and small talk.) The text messages are very friendly, and some what flirtatious. I want to avoid the friend-zone at all costs and we are meeting tomorrow night. How do I set the tone here? I have not dated anyone in a very long time. (almost 5-6 years) I don't even know how to date really. I was pretty overweight for a while but recently lost 50lbs over the course of 6 months and I basically have this one window. Me - 30 yr old white male. I give myself a 6/10 on looks, 9/10 on professional success, 9/10 personality (I am pretty hilarious/goofy) Her - 30 yr old white female. 10/10 looks, 6/10 professional. She is pretty awesome. Help me not blow this.
bettermistakes Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 If you meet up and you feel like she's interested, then just tell her that you realise now that you didn't treat her so well when you all were younger and that you've grown up. Then of course your actions have to back that up. Also, don't get too far ahead of yourself. You have history, but you haven't spent time together in quite a while. Just try to enjoy yourself in the moment, and see what happens.
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