autumnnight Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 I am a scientist by trade and I am very objective. My instincts are usually right, and my instinct tells me that for some, there is an attraction to it for that particular reason. Numbers don't lie I think there is probably a greater number of people with trauma or trouble in their past who are attracted to the true goth lifestyle that those who are attracted to, say, the sorority house (excepting for daddy bought me a Beemer issues, of course lol). I would bet that many of the people online who say they are "Dominants" are actually just control freaks. I would bet that there is a higher percentage of promiscuity among strippers than among social workers. HOWEVER, that does not mean it is scientifically sound to assume that the guy you saw in the mall wearing black with pale skin is being abused. BTW...."instincts" is not a scientific method that I am aware of.... 1
Author Guyouthere Posted September 30, 2015 Author Posted September 30, 2015 My motto…. Never ASSUME Assume = Ass+U = Me hehehe Translated,,, if assuming something, it usually results me being an ass and wrong about you (them). hehehehe
MovingOnIsHard Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 My motto…. Never ASSUME Assume = Ass+U = Me hehehe Translated,,, if assuming something, it usually results me being an ass and wrong about you (them). hehehehe[/quote Your rampant posting of various threads in a short amount of time is borderline spamming/trolling. seriously. Also, the "history class" i mentioned it just an example im using to bring my point across. You cannot be so literal, can you? If you took the same amount of time spent on posting threads and placed towards thinking about how to improve your own well-being and MOVING ON from your past relationship, go outside and talk to people.
MovingOnIsHard Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 I am a scientist by trade and I am very objective. My instincts are usually right, and my instinct tells me that for some, there is an attraction to it for that particular reason. Numbers don't lie Where were your instincts when you decided to fly across the world to see your then-gf? Your arrogance is quite evident.
shet Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 Outward appearance has little to do with abuse. In fact some really pampered silver spoon types wind up the attention seeking tatted up Frankenstein monsters with ironmongery through every bodypart. In personal experience, those who were abused are damaged goods and it isn't worth my life and sanity to deal with it. It sounds harsh but in life, we look after ourselves in the end. If you get the hint of past abuse within a dating period where you can back away, do so.
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