QueenDeath Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 Hey everyone. Even though I'm sitting here hoping that my ex will go through the same pain I went through from the breakup. I miss him. I don't know if I miss him or just the relationship I had with him. Not only was he my boyfriend, he was also my best friend. He was someone I know I can go to for everything. He was someone I can rant on and on about something that's bothering me. He was someone I can lean on whenever I'm not having the best days. Not saying I don't have friends or anything. I have a few close online friends, one of the them being a friend to my ex. While I do talk to my close friends and all, I miss having that best friend bond. Even though the relationship was long distance. I still felt that bond over the course of our relationship. I've been thinking about messaging him on Facebook, however, I know breaking NC wouldn't do me any good. I don't know how to cope with not having that best friend around to lean on. I'm used to having someone to lean on since I've been in relationships a lot, but now. I don't know. I'm not used to dealing with things alone and it sucks. I feel as if I want my best friend back. Not as a romantic partner, no. But just as a best friend. I don't know...I just miss him.
Reels Posted September 30, 2015 Posted September 30, 2015 You miss him and he don't even care about you. I don't see any benefit in being friends honestly, because you still don't get to know everything about them, the way you could earlier.
Reiben17 Posted October 2, 2015 Posted October 2, 2015 It's understandable that you currently feel like you might not be able to replace that connection with him, But really you just need to give this whole thing time, There's really no other way sometimes, Just wait it out. Stay strong. This feeling will definitely fade.
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